We are in an era where dating is a whole lot different from what it used to be some decades ago. Girls are increasingly making the first move as opposed to the traditional way of guys taking the lead. With mobile phones, you can instantly keep in touch with a loved one anytime and any day. Ladies, let's look at flirty messages you can send to your boyfriend to make things interesting.
How to flirt over text
Knowing how to flirt over text is an art. Here are some steps to help you pull it off
1. Be creative
It's hard to be original when you're texting so the person you want to flirt with will be even more impressed when you're able to pull it off. You should think of something no one else but you would say. This will pique the interest of your boyfriend or boo and will make him more likely to respond to you right away.
2. Ask an open question
An open question is one the other person cannot answer by just saying yes or no. Asking an open question is a great way to flirt with boo because it shows that you're not texting just because you feel like it, but because you want to keep a conversation going.
- Keep it simple
- Ask lots of open-ended questions
- Don't be too open-ended
- Be thoughtful
3. Watch your spelling and grammar
This may seem silly and irrelevant, but it's very important. If you were flirting with your boyfriend in person, then you would make sure your outfit and looks are on point. Therefore, if you're sending a text message, you should make sure you're using proper punctuation and that your sentences are complete.
4. Don't come on too strong
Subtlety is key when you're opening up a text-based conversation. You should try not to go overboard. Just relax and send a text when the time feels right, and don't over think it. You shouldn't spend more than a minute deciding what's the best text to send your special someone. Don't try too hard to be funny.
Teasing over text is a great way to flirt with your boo. You can be a little bit playful and make fun of him, and let him make fun of you back.
- Keep it light
- Make sure he gets that you're joking
- If you have a silly nickname for boo, use it when you're texting
- Send a wink face emoticon to show that you're just teasing
6. Find a way to let him know you care about him
Offer to buy launch or find out what he loves to do best and offer to do that with him
7. Be a little naughty
You can find subtle ways to arouse your boyfriend through texting. For instance, you can mention to him that you just got out of the shower
8. Don't be too eager
Remember that you're supposed to play it cool when you're texting. Make sure that you and your boyfriend roughly text each other about the same amount of time.
9. Know when it's time to stop texting
You don't have to be that person who keeps up a textual exchange hours after there's nothing left to say.
10. Leave on a good note
If you have to go, tell him where you're going and what you're doing. Leave an opening to pick up the conversation at another time.
Texting flirting examples
- I had a dream about you last night. I’d tell you what happened, but it’s way too inappropriate.
- Do you have any plans for this weekend? Because I don’t.
- I just heard a song on the radio, and it describes our relationship perfectly.
- If you want to make a move, today would be the perfect time to go for it.
- I just finished a book I know you would love. You should come over to pick it up.
- You already know how I feel about you. So what are you going to do about it?
Flirting messages for him
You can tailor texts to suit your boyfriend. If he loves to swim, you can send :
- The weather is hot and I'm off to get wet. Care to join?
- It's so chilly out here, I need you to come warm me up.
- Guess what I'm imagining.
- What are you up tonight? I wanna rock your world!
- Congratulations! You got the role of the main man in my life, as a reward you receive a romantic date with me!
- I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?
- I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?
- Should I wear the red undies or the black ones? Can’t decide
- You're in my 4 am thoughts.
- Can I have you for breakfast-in-bed today?
- I'll admit you're on my mind more than just sometimes.
- I'm dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
- What do you want me to do to you tonight?
- You're not very good at pretending you don't want me.
- Let's make like fabric softener and snuggle.
- What’s that in your eye? Must just be a twinkle.
- I was looking at a light bulb today and it made me think of you and how you light up my world.
Flirty texts to a guy
- Baby, if you were words on a page, you’d be what they call FINE PRINT!
- Your hand looks heavy. Let me hold it for you.
- I’m still wearing that smile you gave me…
- I’ve been crazy busy ALL day… Wanna come distract me?
- Been thinking about you all day. Not always PG, either. ��
- I love you from the bottom of my heart. And my butt, which is bigger than my heart.
- Girls night tonight! Tomorrow I’m gonna need a MAN fix. Will you be around?
- Should I wear a short skirt tonight or a really short skirt?
Flirty texts for him
- I’m usually pretty calm. But when I’m thinking of you, well.
- Even over text, you’re adorable.
- I just saw the cutest actor on TV. Made me think of you.
- You honestly make me laugh harder than I’ve ever laughed before.
- My day would’ve been much better if you were in it.
- I’m attracted to you in ways I can’t even explain. You get me all confused and grinning at the same time.
- That shirt looked so amazing on you last night. Made it hard to get my mind on anything else…
- I smile at my phone like an idiot when I’m texting you.
- You, sir, are very attractive. Therefore, I will stare at you. ��
- When I’m with you, the only thing I want to be is closer.
- I had a lot of fun today. We should have a lot of fun again soon.
- I wanna curl up in your arms and listen to your heartbeat soothe me to sleep.
- I have an extra ticket for tonight and I need to invite a sexy, charming, fabulous man. Know anyone?
- Sundays are for snuggling. Wanna come over?
- Oh no, my heart is missing! Did you steal it?
- I love you more than having the bed all to myself…
- You are that “oh, nothing” when people ask me what I’m thinking about.
- Our lips should have a meeting.
- You put your arms around me and I’m home.
- You don’t “cross” my mind. You live there.
- Do you have any idea how hot you are?
- You’re way too cute. It’s not fair.
- A kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. Wanna workout?
- If you were a library book, I’d never take you back.
- I like you even on bad days when everyone else annoys me.
Best flirty texts to send a guy
- What’s your favourite word for your favourite part of my anatomy?
- Wow, all that yoga has made me super flexible
- I am sitting here unable to focus because I know I’m seeing you later.
- So, what should we do after our date tonight?
- Guess what I’m wearing right now.
- I could feel you touching me forever. It’s the best and most peaceful feeling in the world.
- you’re so sexy it’s not fair. I can’t get enough of you.
- I’m under so many blankets and I’m still cold. I guess I should put on some clothes
- This new underwear feels so good against my skin…
- I’m typing this with one hand because my other hand is busy.
- I can’t stop licking lollipops today for some reason.
- I’m bored and I’m lying in bed. Wanna play Simon Says with me?
- I had a very naughty dream last night and you were definitely there.
- I really want pizza. And a cute guy to eat it with.
- That Instagram photo you just posted is ridiculously sexy.
- I can’t think of anything interesting to say, but I really wanted to talk to you.
- I wore the cutest outfit today. Too bad you didn’t get to see it.
- My dog misses you. Come visit him.
- If you stop by my house tonight, I’ll make it worth your while.
- I’m free this weekend. What about you?
- I can’t fall asleep without someone cuddling me.
- Your profile picture is taking my breath away.
- Spending my entire lunch break thinking about you.
- I love you more than my pizza.
- I know you are occupied at the moment but remember; I love you a lot.
Now you have it. The guidelines on how to be flirty with him and some interesting flirty messages to send him.
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