A young married man is seeking help after he discovered a text message his wife sent to her ex-boyfriend saying that her vagina was still tight and intact for him.
The man, believed to be a Nigerian, has told a popular Nigerian forum that he shockingly found the messages on his wife’s phone telling her ex-boyfriend that her vagina which he used to enjoy was still tight because she gave birth through a cesarean section.
He was thus seeking help from the forum on how to handle the situation because that message, plus his wife’s attitude was making him go mad, especially as she refused to apologize.
The man seems to have regretted marrying his wife, indicating that she misled him to marry her with pretenses.
He narrated how the lady pretended to be the best woman for marriage during their courtship, but showed him her ‘true colours’ just about three weeks after their marriage.
The man who pleaded anonymous said his wife went to the extent of stabbing him with a kitchen knife when they had a little argument, and that marked the beginning of troubles in the marriage.
He is especially scared of remaining in the marriage after his wife threatened to poison him over their misunderstandings.
Read his full unedited story below:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.
She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.
She would apologize at any slight opportunity.
It was all rosy.
The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.
They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt “this is it”.
We got married almost a year later.
The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! There was disagreement about money.
She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn’t too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.
That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.
I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won’t even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart-to-heart talk with her.
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I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.
She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.
2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex-boyfriends about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.
I was devastated. I drew her attention to it, and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.
She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won’t.
I reported to the mother. This didn’t help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.
Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.
Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.
She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.
Time past and my life became almost miserable.
I would close from the office and won’t be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.
Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn’t see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.
It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money, and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.
My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her, and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don’t want them together.
This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn’t deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.
I can’t take it any more.
I don’t wanna die before my time.
I can’t eat in my house any more as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.
What’s the express way to divorce without complications?
NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.
Meanwhile, another married woman has cried that for five years after marriage, she was still a virgin because her husband wouldn’t make love to her.
She said she later found out that he was a gay and member of a cult group.
In a related development, a wife has also cried about how her husband gave her HIV after eight years of marriage.
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