Going on a first date with a lady is one of the most awesome moments every man will want to experience.
That first date could be a make or break moment for what could turn out to be a good relationship. Since the first date is crucial, what you say to the lady is very important.
Here, YEN.com.gh brings to you five things you should not say to a lady on the first date.
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1. Saying "I love you"
It is inappropriate to tell a lady that you love her on the first outing. A first date means you have not known the lady for a long while. Telling her you love her means that you truly don't even know why you feel so.
This is because, you do not know her much enough to love her. Saying "I Love You" on the first day is actually a total turn off for ladies even if they feel good about you.
2. Asking for a sleep over
Telling a lady to sleep over on the first date is actually a no-no for a lot of ladies. Knowing a lady for some time before getting intimate is very important to ladies.
Even though they may be all over you on the first date, it is very inappropriate to ask for a sleep over on the first date. Such a request will make the lady feel like you consider her to be 'cheap'.
3. "Will you marry me?"
The question of marriage should be avoided on your first date with a lady. Even though you may see traits about the lady that you will want in your future wife, posing the question, "will you marry me?", is a turn off.
Marriage is said to be a long journey in life, thus requires careful thinking. Not even when you have a dream or vision that the lady is your wife should you ask such a question on the first date.
4. "You are not my type"
Telling a lady she is not your type of woman on the first date is inappropriate even when you don't find her interesting. It sounds disgraceful to the lady and that could go wrong for you the guy as well.
Again, it does not make one a gentleman if such strong words are thrown at a lady on the first date. It is always better to keep your comments if you do not like the lady after your first date. May be you can tell her later and do so in a nice way.
5. "Do you love me?"
Love is a big deal especially for most ladies. Asking if she loves you on the first date is also a no-no. Even when you feel like the lady is all over you and falling for your looks, it is too quick to pose the question 'do you love me?'.
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