5 smart steps to break up with someone without any drama

5 smart steps to break up with someone without any drama

Not all break-ups are done the same and that is the first lesson anyone who wants to bring an affair to an end.

The duration of the relationship, the intensity of companionship and the nature of the person you are trying to leave should all be factored into your decision when you want to leave.

For most people, they would like to still be seen in good light by the person they are leaving. It is the reason why some spend sleepless nights wondering if they can still be friends with their exes.

But thankfully, human experience has taught us ways in which one can break up without necessarily having drama. YEN.com.gh brings you a number of them,

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1. The kind of person determines the means of breakup

After having shared some of your life with someone very closely, you need to have known what kind of person they are.

This will give you an idea as to whether to text, call or meet up with them to give them the news.

2. Make sure you have someone to comfort you

Most people feel that those who initiate the break-up are emotionally stronger in that case because they have thought about the incident already.

This is not necessarily true. Before you say the words to your lover, make sure you have a friend or a "very good friend" already in stock to comfort you.

3. Do not break up with them in their moment of grief

If he or she is going through the pain of losing a relative, or failing an exam or even losing job, do not call it quits.

This is especially important if you want to stay friends after the break up or you want to still be seen in respectable way.

4. Do not make up an excuse

Most people know why they want to break up. Most people do not say why they want to break up. That is wrong.

Give a clear reason why you are leaving them. It helps your conscience.

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5. Don't let them find out

It is strange that we needed to say this but do not let your lover "discover" that you have left them. Some people actually do this and it happens more often than you think.

People break up by just avoiding their partners and that is not very smart or dignified.

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