Every relationship has its ups and downs despite it being a means to an end.
There are a lot of red flags that people look out for in relationships but most importantly is how to find out if the man you are seeing is serious about you and wants to stay in the relationship for a long term.
YEN.com.gh has however listed five things to look out for to know whether the man is involved in the relationship.
1. He doesn’t flaunt you on social media
Although not everyone would agree to flaunt their loved ones on social media, it is believed that when a guy flaunts you on his social media platforms, he is announcing to the world that you are the woman of his dreams. If he is not, he doesn't want everyone on his social media to know about you because he knows it's not a long-term thing.
2. He makes no future plans with you in mind
When a man does not want a long term relationship, he makes no plan about the future of the relationship with his partner. If your man is not taking into account your needs and desires in his future plans, this shows that he’s either not taking the steps to move into a longer-term relationship or that his fear of losing freedom today is more powerful than his desire to commit.
3. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends and family
It is quite obvious that friendship and family are two of the most important things in every person's life. So if you're truly special to someone, they would want the people closest to them to know you.
4. He doesn’t appreciate your efforts
No matter what you do to support a man who doesn’t seem to have you in mind for a long term relationship, he would not appreciate it. If he does, he would do that pretentiously. Most at times, a man who does not want a long-term relationship with you would hardly appreciate your efforts.
5. He is always defensive
If his default attitude when you express your concerns or bring up a problem is getting defensive or acting hurt, it’s just a matter of time before you shut down and resent him in a major way. As long as you’re bringing up issues in a non-critical way, he should have the capacity and curiosity to show interest and listen to you.
All guys can get defensive at times but when a guy is mostly defensive this demonstrates a level of insecurity and not wanting a long-term relationship.
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