In our piece on He’s cheated, now what? We advised you on the urgency of confronting your man and also protecting yourself from any STDs. But what happens when the tables turn and she is the one doing the cheating?
Men are protective of their selfish space. Yes, men are selfish. And for them to find out their girl is cheating can be disastrous. That’s when they feel they are not man enough for their woman.
In extreme cases, crime scenes are left with traces of gunshots here and there. It can be nasty and bloody when a man gets to know his fellow dude is grinding his lady. For most men, they just let go when they find out their woman is cheating or has cheated on him. For others, they fight to get her back.
As stated earlier, cheating is a chain of events and not an isolated circumstance. She’s cheated, now what?
Unlike men, ladies are very forthcoming of their wrongs if TRULY they love you. So, confront them as the gentleman you are, not as a thug! Let her know what she is losing and the risk she is getting herself into. This is very important.
Relationship experts tell us the way to a woman’s heart are her eyes, ears and sense of smell. Use that to your advantage and win her back.
One thing you can’t risk is your sexual health. That’s the more reason you must be caution of HIV and Hepatitis when you are with a cheating partner. Remember, calling it quits is an option especially when love is all that matters for both of you.
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