Women tend to be overly-conscious about the way they look during sex. But guess what? Most of the things that women are afraid men would notice are definitely details that really don't catch their eyes. They are set to noticing more than the physical; in fact, they are more into the details of how the whole experience will go.
Behaviors during the lovemaking and the chemistry are what guys see. They are more concerned about whether they are turning you on or not. If you still are confused, read the five things that men usually notice about you during sex:
1. Your Initiative
If we’re doing all the work and you’re just sort of hanging out to see what’s going to happen next, we’re going to think you’re not all that interested. So show a little excitement, eh? Take the lead in unbuckling or unclasping something. Roll us over, and get on top. Help us make this moment awesome.
2. The Way Your Body Moves
If you’re stiff, it puts a chill on the moment. We wonder if there’s a problem or if you’re feeling self-conscious. But if you’re revved up and sensual, that turns us on. We want to feel your body writhe against us. We want your chest to press against ours, to feel your thigh slide up between ours. The more you engage your entire body in the moment, the more we feel like you’re excited to be with us.
3. Your Eyes
Are you looking deeply into ours? Are you checking out our freshly naked bodies? Both options are good. What makes us uncomfortable is if you’re looking down (are you having doubts?), checking out your own body (feeling self-conscious?), or gazing off to the wall or ceiling (just bored?). So make sure your eyes aren’t telling us something you don’t want them to. Let us know you’re pumped to be here with us.
4. Your Breath
No, I’m not talking about whether it stinks (although—let’s hope it doesn't!). I’m talking about how it sounds. Is it heavier than usual? Similarly, is your voice deeper? These clues tell us whether you’re genuinely aroused. You don’t need to play it up by panting like you just ran a 5-K or trying to mimic the deeper notes on an organ. But if you’re getting into it, let it show. Let us feel your breath against our neck, whisper something sexy into our ear, let us know you can’t wait for what’s about to happen. Our arousal feeds off of yours, so don’t be afraid to be visibly turned on.
5. If You’re Freshly Waxed or Wearing Expensive Lingerie
Hey—no judgment if you're not. But the prep work implies that you were thinking about sex, and we’re all for that. After all, so were we. Glad we’re on the same page here!