Struggling with your partner who does not meet your needs in relationships? Life can be very unfulfilling if the significant one in your life fails to understand you. Here is the most powerful cure for your problem!
Dating is romantic. We try to guess the desires and dreams of the other person and at times succeed at it. However, after the wedding real life gets hard on romance. The pressure rises and there is no time for guessing anymore. Millions of people complain about their needs not being met in marriage or long term relationships.
The cure is so simple, but so powerful! It is the power of communication. Even God created this world with the word. Words have power to build up or destroy, but numbness is powerless. So many couples out there (you you two might be one of them) are struggling with lack of communication.
A wife sits at home and hopes her husband reads her mind and gets her a bouquet of flowers or a small gift. A husband dreams at night of his wife getting more active in bed and doing something special for him. Those dreams are doomed to stay dreams, unless…
Talk about it. Even God, who knows our hearts perfectly, asks us to share our desires with Him in our speech. Men or women are not magicians. They cannot read minds. So, instead of sitting and waiting, and hoping, and getting frustrated, come up and talk about it to him or her!
Discuss it. In most cases saying something once is not enough. Are you sure you got your point across? Discussion is not a fight. You should talk and listen, trying to understand the other person. Talk it over as many times as you need.
Listen and negotiate. Be sure your spouse also has some unmet needs. Listen to them carefully and try to understand. Then do something they ask you to do. Communication is not about words only, it is about actions and love. Show your love the way your spouse needs it to be shown. Then you can expect them to do the same for you.
See, words do wonders in restoring relationships. In many cases people have no idea their partner expects something from them. Just talk things over and listen to heal your marriage.