Sex in marriage is not always perfect. Once people start dating, they get excited about each other. What do you do when the love goes cold, and sex fails to satisfy? Learn the tips to boost your intimacy.
Hormones and excitement is not a valid fuel for marital sex. But these things are:
Yes, many men hate this part, but it works! They say: a woman loves with ears. So, take your time to talk to her and to listen, too. Both spouses should learn to understand each other. You see, men are always ready for sex. Even after a fight they can right off get engaged. Women perceive sex as a part of life. If the life is no good, sex is no good! So, keep up the communication in your family.
To love and to make love – there is a difference there. People can make love without being actually loving. Show your love in practical ways to your spouse. Do it regularly outside the bedroom. Learn his or her language of love and do little things to please your partner.
Deal with fights quickly
Offenses and fights are inevitable in married life. But you can get over them fast instead of going around offended for days or even weeks. The Bible tells us that the sun should not go down in our anger. (Eph 4:26) So, be quick to forgive and slow to anger.
Meet his or her needs in sex
At times, sexual desires and fantasies of a husband and his wife do not fall in line. Learn to negotiate what you want and offer in return what they want!
Learn the anatomy
Both men and women should know how the body of the opposite gender works. Men, it’s not enough to do your business quickly and come! Take your time to caress the woman and do everything she needs to get aroused and have an orgasm. Yes, males and females function differently, so learn to be a real good lover! That’s your job!
Yes, these things do not work magic overnight. They take time and effort on your side, but they really work and can allow a couple to enjoy sex for many years of their married life!