Men try to play super confident heroes. But inside they may be full of fear. What do are they afraid of the most in bed? The answers may shock you.
The answer is simple men’s worst nightmare in the bed is women! All their fears and insecurities are related to the ladies. Scientists have carried out several studies. They all show that men dread rejection and humiliation.
45% of all guys suspect their sex partners in faking orgasms. Most men are afraid not being on the level. They fear that they cannot give you the pleasure they receive when making love. They view it as their mission in life!
64% of men are afraid to be compared with the past lovers of the woman. They fear to be less potent in bed than other men you had. What if one of your lovers had a bigger manhood? That question is a real torment, and it can even cause poor performance of the poor man in bed.
Some men say: if you have these problems the only cure is to find a new woman. However, ladies, you can do something to turn the nightmare into happiness.
Do and don’t for women in bed:
- Never compare him to others
You may have had just one or a hundred of guy. First of all, do not tell him the number. Keep it secret. Secondly, never compare him, unless he is the best and the champ.
- Praise him and his performance
Yes, he may leave you upset at times, but he does not need to know about it. Even if you do fake orgasms, keep it a secret. And try to help him by directing and guiding.
- Offer new things
If he does not do the right thing, you can teach him and guide him by introducing new and fun ways to make love. Who said only men could do it?
- Keep the fights out of the bed
The bedroom is not the place for your arguments or relationship discussions. Make this place sacred for love.
As you see, you got the power over your man. Help him to get over his fears and enjoy sex.