This is post is not necessarily for people about to get married. Even before you say yes to being someone’s girlfriend, there are important questions that you must answer first.
It is assumed that courtship and dating allow for two people to learn more about each other before taking the relationship to the next level. So before you say yes, answer the following 5 questions.
1. How are they with their family?
If the man you are looking at potentially entering into a relationship with does not hold his own family in esteem, there is cause to be worried about the family you may be raising with him.
2. How do they express their anger? Can you handle it?
It is important to know the temperament of your potential lover before committing. Even more important is the way he expresses it. If there is the slightest indication of him being violent when he is angry, that relationship may not be the best for you.
3. Are they financially stable?
This is one of the most important things to know about your man. How is he with money? How much does he have? What is the potential of him making more? Does he invest? Finding the answers to these does not mean you are a gold digger. It is just an assurance that the basic financial needs between the two of you will not stress the relationship.
4. How much sex do they require?
Yes. Another important one. Ladies, you have to know your man’s libido and if you will be able to satisfy him sexually. Men happen to be more sexual than women and so knowing when and how much your man loves to get in there will be a good assessment to knowing if you can handle that. Remember, a lot of relationships have broken because of this.
5. What is their spiritual inclination?
In this part of the world, spirituality is very important to families and individuals. If you do not share each other’s faith or spiritual beliefs, are you at least willing to tolerate and live with them, probably for the rest of your life?
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