One of the hardest truths every single lady lives with is the fear of having to live each day seeing your colleagues getting married and starting happy families.
It's scary! Especially when you are hitting your 30's and realize no man is even looking your way. Worry no more, these magical tips would help.
1. Be who you are, don't pretend
Men are never attracted to ladies who have masks on. Majority of single men out there are in fact scared of having to live another lie apart from themselves. The magic of being who you are as a lady is that it attracts the man who loves you for who you are and not who you could be. Never wear those make-up if they make you look unnatural; never fake that accent if they make you sound stupid; just be who you are for once!
2. Get out of your hiding place, Explore
After taking off the charade, it's time for you to venture the very places and things that you usually would dare not to. Men are adventurers. What this means is that, they are always awed by personalities who share in their whims of adventure! Being adventurous does not mean going scouting in a rain forest, no. It simply means doing the very things you once feared like going hiking, pursuing a course you feared of failing...just pushing yourself to the edge of your potential.
3. Hit the "men hotspots"
You will never see nor touch the man of your life if you fail to reach out to the very locations in life he might be. Don't expect to meet your future boyfriend or husband in the privacy of your bedroom! It's time to visit the cafe's with your girlfriends and just have some fun...that's where they truly are. Try going to the gym, golf courses, cinemas...and you will thank me later!
4. Live "the man's dream"
To be able to fish, you need to be a fisherman and not a hunter! Every adventure requires a specific skill that best fits its purpose! Do you wish for a husband who is spiritual? Then start getting spiritual!; are you in search of a footballer? Then stars hitting the stadia! That's life, ladies.
5. Love yourself
Oh yea! Most of us ladies are willing to be loved but we never love ourselves in the first place! If you barely take care of your hygiene, never expect a man to do that for you; if you barely floss to keep a firm dental health, never expect a man to do that for you; if you never gym to burn off those fat, never expect a man to do that for you. Mind you, men are simply "maintainers" and not "improvers". They will try their best to maintain your outlook, be it good or bad!
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Apply these simple but magical steps and you definitely will be walking down the isle in the next five minutes of your life!