There is a certain connection between single women and men who are taken in a relationship or married. Women, as tender as their hearts are, choose to fall in love with men who are clearly out of reach.
In the past, men who are married are seen as off-market; women do not want to have intimate relationships with them because they know they are up to no good. But in present times, the reverse is the case.
Some of the women in the society are shying away from marriage; they find it easy to relate with men who are married for some unknown reasons. Finding a man who is in a relationship is a point of attraction to many. It is sickening that they some of them see the men as prizes that have to be won.
Many women in the society are mate poachers; they are only interested in going after men that belong to other women. It is absurd that as pretty as some of these women are, they do not find single men to give their hearts to.
We have husband snatchers, fiance seductresses and home wreckers in the society now. There are a number of reasons why women deliberately go after men who are married. We have to acknowledge the fact that some married men do not stay in their lanes too; they do not have it in mind to keep their marriage vows.
Find below some of the reasons single women are attracted to married men:
1. Lack of conscience
Adultery has been in existence since time immemorial; people are starting to see illicit affairs as a norm in the society. Even though people know it is not okay to cheat on their partners, they still do it all the same.
Single women are guilt-free. They help some men break their vows and do not care about the wives at home. They will do whatever it is they could do in order to win the men over.
2. They are naturally drawn to the married men
Some single women are known to be mate poachers because they find other women's husbands and fiances irresistible.
They like qualities these men exhibit in their relationships and would do anything to have the men to themselves.
They understand that married men are often in dire need of intimacy, their wives are too busy looking after the kids that they end up neglecting the men.
Single women offer emotional support as well as sexual pleasure to these men. They meet their needs when they are depressed and in need of comfort.
3. Married men are money bags
This is hitting the nail on the head. As disciplined as some single women are, they cannot resist the thoughts of being with some married men who will boost their finances.
Married men in addition to being easy to talk to have loads of money to drop. Most of these men know the affair excludes serious commitment, they try to make up for it by giving these single women money.
The single women, in turn, see it as a convenient arrangement; they tag along until they are ready to settle down. Some of them become the men's darlings and end up helping them explore polygamy.
Men who have social status in the society are prized by women.
4. Women are more opened than in the past
While the world is clamouring for an equal right for both men and women, women are liberated and helped out of their shells.
They have become daring with their needs, thoughts and actions. Nothing is ever out of reach to them as they know the kind of effort they will put into it to make it happen.
This is the modern day poaching; the world is obviously not shocked anymore when they see a married man having an illicit affair with a single woman.
5. Stealing another woman's husband is easy
All thanks to technology, women now find it easy to poach other women's husbands without doing much. They could be in the comfort of their homes and chat flirtatiously with these men while they are in bed with their wives.
They use humour to get close to the men, they call at intervals in order to make the men think about them. They are able to send pictures that will cause all sorts of reactions in the minds and bodies of these men. They dress to kill when they finally meet these men.
There are several other reasons single women run after married men. But irrespective of what their reasons are, they are being selfish with their actions. It is not fair for you to sabotage someone else's husband.
You are most likely to get married someday as a single woman, you will not appreciate a young lady seducing your husband. It is unforgivable for you to poach someone else's husband. Moreover, a man who cheats on his wife for your sake will also cheat on you with someone else.
That is the law of karma.