- You meet someone. A conversation starts that was just meant to be about pleasantries, turns out to be a 15-minute conversation
You bump into each other again on your way to and from the loo, the convo picks up again.
It’s not like you’re talking about matters of state, but for some reason, you take each other seriously.
After all, things like this happen every day, you know, because it is portrayed in almost all romantic comedies.
So after you take a seat on the curb, it’s getting kinda late, he asks you if you wanna keep hanging out.
You came with your friends so you find yourself in an awkward position, of who do you choose?
You take a few moments to think about this one.
If you do go with him, is it going to go down, or will you spend the whole night talking about your dreams and wishes.
Do you go home with your squad that you came with? That way this is something you can stop thinking about and it will be just like any other night? What do you want?
The things one must consider in such a situation, I mean before totally falling in love.
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So my main point on this whole issue. People are different. if you decide to fall in love or go with a certain route, be fully prepared for what is to come.
It should not be about judging other people just because someone is doing something that you don’t do.
But in everything you do, be safe, even if that means being in a serious thing.
Hearts break too.