-More often than not in Ghanaian today, when a guy asks a girl over, the end game is almost predictable
-The only problem comes in when the girl is not in the frame of mind to get down
-She will use the most unothrodox means to avoid giving out any unwanted vibes to the fisi
-Here are 7 things a lady will do to keep the situation from escalating
1. Leaving the door open
A lady who will visit you in your own house and still leave the door to your own house open is most certainly planning to leave early. There is no chance of bagging her there.
2. The tighter the better
The mode of dressing is also an indicator whether the lady is into the entire lungula idea or not. Ghanaian ladies will come dressed in tight clothes knowing very well the seduction bit of things will be hard enough for the guy to virtually give up.
3. Red flag shows up
Ladies know that men do not like hearing the fact that the red flag is on. Most men would be irritated seeing the blood bank of the girls when they want to sleep with them.
It is a natural turn off for men so ladies use it as a weapon and say they are on. Some even go on to wear pads just to prove it is real.
4. Stories that touch the heart
Sometimes, ladies cook up all sorts of stories that would make men pity them; they talk about how they have suffered one or two forms of abuse in their previous relationships. They act traumatized and this would naturally throw the men off balance.
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5. They avoid sitting on the bed
Many ladies avoid sitting on the bed when they visit men as they feel they are falling into a trap. The bed makes them more cautious and to avoid being tempted or lured into doing something they do not want to do at that moment, they would rather sit on the chair.
6. They would have a friend/friends with them
Ladies do not like visiting men for the first time alone. They would rather go with one or two friends that would help them break the tension that could be around the place.
Having one or two other girls in the room apart from the main girl visiting would spoil the show for the men. Ladies can be sure nothing would happen then.
7. They completely shift their attention
Another thing ladies do when visiting guys in their houses is to concentrate on doing a particular thing. Some place all their attention on books while some watch movies and do not give the guys the time to want to get personal with them.