Lady Advises Women to Support Husbands If They Decide to Marry 2nd Wives

Lady Advises Women to Support Husbands If They Decide to Marry 2nd Wives

  • A woman has asked women to support their husband should they propose to marry second wives
  • She discouraged women from fighting each other because of men and instead encouraged them to fight over better things like workspaces and education
  • Men on social media agreed with her sentiment, while most women believed that there are men who prefer marrying one wife and do not cheat

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A Muslim woman has asked women to support their husbands should they decide to marry second wives.

The Kenyan woman asked women to stop fighting each other of men. Photo: @nps254/TikTok.
A screenshot of the woman who advised women to support their hubby when they marry second wives. Photo: @Nps254/TikTok.
Source: UGC

Lady's advice to women

The lady addressed her fellow women via a TikTok video that was shared by @nps254 has since gone viral, and she said women should stop fighting men because polygamy is a normal thing.

"If his parents do not fight over him, who are you to fight over a married man? So when a man decides he wants to marry, pray that he will get a good wife and one who together you can support and help each other," she said.

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The unidentified Kenyan lady also said that it was high time women should stop fighting each other over men and instead switch gears to fighting over education, work, promotion and other better things.

"Polygamy is there, we accept it, we refuse it, we deny it. It is there. Even the Christian men should stop hiding and going home to their wives, yet they have a side chic somewhere. That is no solution. Introduce them and let them know each other,'' she added.

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The majority of the men in the comment section agreed with her sentiments and asked women to be open to sharing one man as long as he treats them both right.

However, some women maintained that a marriage should be between one man and woman and that polygamy only destabilizes families.

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Sharing a picture of herself and the man together, Haitian Creative said that she found the man at a wedding they both attended together.

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