Lady Rejects Marriage, Set To Give Birth To Second Child For Her Man: "I Prefer Being A Baby Mama"

Lady Rejects Marriage, Set To Give Birth To Second Child For Her Man: "I Prefer Being A Baby Mama"

  • A lady has said it is better for her to remain a baby mama instead of getting into marriage with her man
  • The lady who is currently pregnant with her second child said being married is like carrying a heavy load on her head
  • She maintained that being a baby mama is easier since she could leave the relationship any time she wants

A Nigerian lady said it was preferable to be a baby mama than for her to be committed to a married life.

The lady made the statement in the comment section of a TikTok video she shared to show off her pregnancy for her man.

Lady says she prefers being a baby mama.
The lady is carrying her second child for her man. Photo credit: TikTok/@pretty_rib.
Source: UGC

The pregnant woman with the TikTok name, Drama Queen said she was carrying her second child for her man without being married to him.

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Drama Queen mentioned that being married was like carrying plenty of loads, but as she was a baby mama, it was easier to 'Japa' anytime.

Her words:

"Same here o. Marriage ke? I will be feeling like dey carry load on my head. I still prefer being a baby mama na anytime I fit japa."

Meanwhile, mixed reactions followed the video. While some people threw their weights behind her, others said they would like to be married.

Watch the video below:

Reactions as lady says she prefers being a baby mama

@Aramide9772 said:

"That's me. My parents are seriously disturbing me and me all I need is shop."

@BIG PEACE said:

"Me I born two before my husband pay my bride price."

@Maya Simon said:

"What people can’t get Dey make it look like Dey don’t want it."

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@Aramide9772 commented:

"Sure as a wife I, deserve alot most especially the ring but that won't bring food to my table."

Ghanaian couple's simple and affordable wedding goes viral

In a related story, reported that a Ghanaian couple's simple and unique wedding ceremony, devoid of decorations and extravagant attire, has gone viral.

The couple, opting for regular clothes and slippers, exchanged vows in the presence of a few witnesses, possibly family and friends.

The modest wedding, costing only GH¢1500, resonated widely online, with many praising the couple's emphasis on the genuine essence of their union over lavish celebrations.

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