My Business Outgrew My Husband's Income — So He Accused Me of Witchcraft and Tried to Shut Me Down
The first stone hit my shop sign at exactly 7:18 p.m., just as I lowered the shutter halfway. It clanged like a bell of shame, and the women across the road went silent. Someone whispered, "She has been exposed." I looked up and saw my husband, Kunle, standing with two elders from Akyem Nsutam, their faces set like they had come to collect a debt.
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Kunle pointed at my sewing machines as if they were idols. "Ask her where the money comes from," he said. "Ask her why my farm keeps failing while her shop keeps growing."
My throat tightened. My apprentices, Esi and Abena, froze with a bundle of school uniforms in their hands. A customer with her bridal fabric backed away like she had touched fire.
One elder lifted his Bible and said, "Akosua, you should not fight this. Confess and let us help you."
Confess what?

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Kunle advanced, eyes red, voice shaking with anger, presenting himself as righteous. "Close it," he said. "If you will not close it, I will close it for you. You have turned into something I do not recognise."
People gathered near the motor park. Children climbed a broken wall to watch. Someone spat on the ground near my doorway. I saw my name, the one I built with my own hands, turning into a warning.

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I wanted to scream that I only stitched cloth, measured waists, chased contracts, paid taxes, and slept late. But I also knew the truth. Kunle did not come for a prayer.
He came for my silence.
I married Kunle Mensah when we were both young and struggling in the Eastern Region. He farmed leased land on the outskirts of town, near a stream that swelled in the rainy season and shrank to a thin line in Harmattan. I trained as a seamstress under an older woman, Madam Adjoa, who worked from her veranda and taught me to measure quickly, cut boldly, and never waste fabric.
When Kofi was born, our first child, life became a list that never ended: milk, Pampers, clinic money, and school fees we could already see waiting ahead. Kunle worked hard, but farming gave us promises more than profit. One bad rain, one pest, one landlord demanding his share early, and we would start again.

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So I joined a women's thrift group, a susu, with other traders and hairdressers. I borrowed money to buy a second sewing machine and started taking orders from churches, bridal parties, and schools. What began as stitching uniforms turned into contracts. I learnt to keep records. I saved receipts. I registered my business and put my name on the document as though it mattered, because it did.
Soon, I hired two apprentices and rented a small shop near the motor park, where people passed every day and could see my work hanging like colourful proof. At first, Kunle felt proud. He introduced me as "my wife who works hard." He carried my table into the shop himself. When neighbours praised my work, he smiled. When I paid Kofi's school fees early, he thanked me and said God had remembered us.
I believed we had become a team.
I believed growth would lift both of us.

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I did not know that success, when it enters a house, can also expose what has been hiding inside it.
The shift came quietly, like a cough that turns into a fever. My income overtook Kunle's, and the change did not show in my face. It showed in his.
I bought a freezer so I could sell chilled water and yoghurt at the shop while customers waited for fittings. Later, I bought a used car, not for pride, but because transporting fabric and finished orders on trotros ate time and energy. I started contributing more at family meetings. When a funeral levy came, I paid without hesitation. When Kofi needed textbooks, I bought them that same day.
Kunle stopped asking how my day went.
He started counting my movements.
If I came home late from fittings in Suhum, he questioned me. "Who was there?" he asked. "Why did it take that long?" When a customer called at night, he remained silent, his gaze fixed on my phone as if it were a crime scene.

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One evening, as I washed dishes, he said, "This money is too fast."
I laughed because I thought he meant it as a compliment. "It is contracts, Kunle. Schools pay when you deliver."
He did not laugh back. "Nobody grows like this without help."
"Help?" I asked, confused.
He lowered his voice. "Shortcuts."
That word entered our marriage and refused to leave.
Soon, he refused to eat food bought with my money. He would eat his boiled plantain and garden eggs and push away the rice I cooked with my own cash. "I will not let you use me," he said, and I stared at him as if he had spoken a language I did not understand.
Then he started visiting the elders.
I heard it first from my neighbour, Auntie Mansa, who pulled me aside near the roadside. "Akosua, your husband says you have changed spiritually," she whispered. "He says you do not respect him again."

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I felt heat rise into my cheeks. "Changed how?"
She looked away. "You know what people are saying."
I did not want to know, but the town told me anyway.
Kunle told me to shut the shop or surrender it to him, 'as the man of the house.' He said it as if it were a law written in the sky. I reminded him I had registered it in my name. I reminded him I paid the rent, trained the apprentices, and delivered the work.
He smiled without warmth. "That is the problem. You think it is yours."
We fought in whispers at first so Kofi would not hear. Later, we fought in sharp sentences that cut the air.
"You want me to become small again," I told him.
"You want to disgrace me," he replied.
He began to tell people my success was not natural. Women stopped greeting me with ease. Some welcomed me with forced smiles that died quickly.

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Some warned their children not to enter my shop. A woman who used to bring her daughter for school uniforms started crossing the road when she saw me.
At church, the atmosphere changed too. People who once asked for my number now acted as if my phone carried danger. During the fellowship, someone prayed loudly about "women who use dark power to rise." Everyone said amen, but their eyes rested on me.
I tried to hold my head up and focus on work. I told myself rumours die when you keep moving. I told myself Kunle would calm down.
Instead, he grew bolder.
One night, he came home with a small bottle of oil and said, "Pastor says we must cleanse the house."
I stared at him. "Pastor said that, or you said that?"
He slammed the bottle on the table. "Do not challenge me."
In that moment, I understood I was not fighting gossip.

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I was fighting a man who wanted control more than peace.
The breaking point came during a church fundraising meeting in Koforidua, a busy evening when people pledged money for a new roof. I sat among the women, calculating how much I could give without disturbing payroll at the shop. Kunle sat on the other side, stiff and quiet.
When the pastor called for testimonies, Kunle stood up.
My stomach turned before he even spoke, because I saw the hunger in his eyes. Not hunger for God. Hunger for attention.
He lifted his hand and said, "Man of God, please pray for my wife so she releases whatever she is holding."
The hall went quiet in the cruel way silence can gather.
He continued, voice shaking like he was a victim. "Since her business grew, my strength has reduced. My land does not do well. She comes home late. She does not submit. I think something is wrong."

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The pastor cleared his throat and said, "We will pray."
People turned to look at me. Some looked pitying. Some looked satisfied, as if they had waited for confirmation. My ears rang, and for a moment I could not breathe properly.
That night, I did not shout. I did not beg. I followed Kunle instead.
I waited until he thought I was asleep. Then I listened as he stepped out. I wrapped a cloth around myself, kept my slippers quiet, and followed at a distance under the weak streetlights.
He walked to a prayer house on the edge of town, where a signboard promised deliverance and breakthrough. Inside, I heard his voice through the window.
"She has tied my destiny," he told the leader. "She is draining my strength. I want her business to fall so she will respect me again."
Respect.
So it was not fear. It was not a concern. It was not spiritual. It was pride.

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Days later, inspectors showed up at my shop, summoned anonymously. They checked everything. My registration. My receipts. My tax records. Everything was legal, but the damage had already landed. Clients disappeared. Apprentices quit, saying their parents feared for them.
I stood alone in my shop and realised the man who once held my hand while I stitched at night now wanted to dismantle my life to feel tall again.
I closed the shop with my own hands, not out of shame, but out of strategy.
I packed my machines at dawn, before the town fully woke. I wrapped fabric in black bags, loaded my car, and told no one except my younger cousin, Serwaa, who helped me lift the heavier table. I paid my rent arrears, cleared my apprentices' allowances, and closed the door like I was closing a chapter.
Then I relocated to another town, near Kasoa, where nobody knew my marriage history, and nobody watched my footsteps as if they carried secrets.

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I rented a smaller space behind a provisions shop and reopened quietly. I did not announce. I did not post. I worked.
I stopped explaining myself.
I stopped defending my work.
I focused on clients who cared about delivery dates and clean stitching, not rumours. Within months, schools began to call again. A bridal shop sent customers. A church women's group ordered uniforms after seeing my stitching finishing.
Kunle tried to follow the scent of my progress like a man chasing smoke. At first, he called and shouted. Then he called and pleaded. When he realised my silence did not break, he came in person.
He came one Saturday, thinner and angrier, in the same sandals he once wore on the farm. He stood in my new doorway and looked around like he expected to see shrines.
"So you have moved," he said.
"Yes," I replied.
He tried to smile. "Come home. People have calmed down."

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I shook my head. "I am not returning to a place where my work makes me guilty."
He slammed his hand on my counter. "You have destroyed me."
"No," I said, steady. "You tried to destroy me."
I handed him divorce papers and proof of my clean accounts. I had kept everything, every receipt, every payment, every contract. I knew the kind of story he liked to tell, and I refused to give him space to write it for me.
We agreed on one thing only: our child.
I sent money only for Kofi's needs, nothing more. I paid school fees directly. I bought his uniforms. I saved for his future. Kunle couldn't twist that into witchcraft without looking foolish.
Today, I work without hiding. I teach other women skills and simple bookkeeping. I remind them to register their work, keep records, and trust their eyes when love starts sounding like jealousy.

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When people ask about my marriage, I speak calmly, almost flat, as a fact. Success does not ruin homes.
Insecurity does.
For a long time, I thought love meant shrinking when someone felt threatened. I thought patience meant swallowing pain until it softened. I thought marriage meant explaining myself, even when I had done nothing wrong.
But I learnt something sharper.
Love cannot survive where one person must stay small for the other to breathe.
When Kunle accused me of witchcraft, he did not accuse my spirit. He was striking at my independence. He wanted the town to fear me so I would beg for acceptance. He wanted the elders to pressure me so I would hand him control. He wanted the pastor to cover his insecurity with prayer language so nobody would question him.
And the worst part is this. If I had panicked and closed my shop in shame, people would have called it a confession.

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If I had fought loudly, they would have called it stubbornness. They designed the rules so that I would lose either way.
So I chose a third path.
I chose clarity.
I chose records over rumours. Strategy over shouting. Boundaries over bargaining. I left the place where my success became a crime and built again where my work could speak without being interrupted by fear.
I do not hate Kunle. I pity the kind of man who thinks love is a competition and a wife's growth is a curse. I also forgive the town for believing a story they had heard too many times, because fear spreads easily when people struggle.
But I will not return to that life.
If you are building something and the people closest to you start calling it evil instead of effort, pause and listen. But not to their words, but to what their words reveal.
Here is my lesson.
A partner who loves you will not demand that you become smaller to protect their ego.
My question for you is simple.
Who benefits when you doubt your own hard work?
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