Ghanaian Lady Shares Her First Heartbreak Story: "I Saw All The Red Flags But Ignored"

• A video of a Ghanaian lady sharing why her past relationship was not successful has surfaced on social media
• In the video, she noted that her cheating partner exhibited signs of someone who was playing with her feelings, yet she ignored
• Netizens who saw the video were touched and sent her comforting words in the comment section
• Speaking in an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, a relationship coach shared some signs one can use to determine whether one's partner is cheating or not

A young Ghanaian lady has opened up about her distasteful love experience with a man with whom she attended the same school.

In a TikTok video, she said they were never close during their school days since the young man was a senior and often liked to punish her.

However, their paths crossed again later in life after reportedly meeting on Facebook and exchanging contacts.

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In her video, she stated that he expressed interest in her, but she refused since she knew the young man had a girlfriend.

He reportedly denied his other lover and insisted they were not dating. Based on this, she gave the young man a chance.

The guy reportedly gave her enough signs to indicate she was not the 'main chick,' but she ignored them. She said one of the giant red flags she observed was that he never wanted them to take her photo together on her phone.

"Each time we took a photo, it was on his phone, and he gave various excuses when I wanted us to take a photo on mine. Sometimes, he said my phone's camera quality was poor, etc., but he knew I would post them and did not want me to do that," she recalled.

They later separated, but according to the lady, she found out that her man had gotten his girlfriend, whom he claimed he was not dating, pregnant.

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He would later reach out to her and asked to get back together. She then questioned him about the pregnancy, but he denied it. He told the lady that he was not responsible and was seeking to conduct a DNA test.

Regardless, his other girlfriend delivered, and according to the lady, he's never stopped posting the child on his WhatsApp status, sometimes with beautiful captions like 'my first fruit'.

Watch the video below:

He's cheating if he shows these signs

In an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, relationship coach Apostle Eric Okai shared some signs one can use to determine whether a partner is cheating.

"Some of the signs are change in communication, increased interest in appearance, more time spent away from home, attitude changes and telling lies."

Netizens console young lady

Netizens who saw the video of the young lady were touched by her story and consoled her in the comment section.

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@Irene Darko976 wrote:

"Hope you found healing within, such a beautiful soul."

@Mr.Ofori | Digital Creator wrote:

"Ei Ben."

@samsontash wrote:

"Hmmm it's well."

@kojoanokye337 wrote:

"Awurade Y'awu."

Indomie Seller gets heartbroken

In a related development, YEN.com.gh reported that a Ghanaian woman who sells Indomie suffered a devastating heartbreak after her man betrayed her.

In a video, she noted that she sponsored the man's trip abroad but he betrayed her by mentioning another woman's name when subjected to the loyalty test.

Her sad story about the relationship got netizens reacting differently, as some sympathised with the lady while others criticised the man for his betrayal.

Proofread by Samuel Gitonga, Copy Editor at YEN.com.gh

Source: YEN.com.gh