"My Bae Posts Male BFF On Instagram, Claims I Don't Trust Her After Complaining": Expert Advises
- A Kenyan man is seeking advice to win back his girlfriend after he dumped him
- The heartbroken man disclosed his girlfriend posted photos with another man, whom she claimed was her childhood friend and after confronting her, she left
- Relationship and marriage expert Jane Murimi said the man was insecure and advised him to have a talk with his woman
Anonymous wrote:
"I have been having some issues with my girlfriend for some time now because there was a day I confronted her for she has been posting another man on social media (Instagram and TikTok) saying he is her childhood friend. For me, doing so, hurt me. She said I don't trust her anymore, and she has called it quits. What should I do to make this right since she doesn't even reply to my messages and calls."
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Jane Murimi Mugo is a relationship and marriage expert with over 12 years of experience in counselling. She is a published author of Caged and is working on another mental health book.
While responding to the frustrated man, relationship coach Jane Murimi Mugo advised him to ask his woman out and tell her how he feels about her entertaining another man.
"I would advise the guy to organise for a date with his woman. Let him share with her his worries and apologise if he was too suspicious. Maybe he is paranoid. The guy should seek assurance from the lady that no strings attached between her and her friend," she advised.
Communication is key
Murimi who is also a published author said the lady could be communicating something, and the man was slow to understand.
She observed that women are like children, sometimes, they do things to communicate, expecting their partners to understand them without actually saying it.
"It could be she saw an opportunity to have some poses with the guy for her own reasons. The guts are communicating something. Let this guy have soul-searching. Why would his woman find pleasure in posing with another man for a photo? Maybe she has a valid reason.... He needs a date to discuss the issue," she said.
Disclaimer: Advice given in this article is general and is not intended to influence readers' decisions about solving marital problems. They should always seek professional advice that considers their circumstances before making a marriage decision.
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