Pretty Woman Who Lost 2 Marriages Due to “Barrenness” Becomes Lucky Mother of 3 Boys
- For over 20 years, Madina Mbabazi was made to believe that she would never give birth to a baby of her own
- It was such a big issue that it cost her two marriages; the first spanning nine years while the second lasting a decade
- Lady luck shone on her when she moved to a different town and met a doctor who diagnosed and treated her for fibroids, after which she fell pregnant and delivered triplets
- “I used to be called Mama Zero but now I am a mother of three. Isn’t God amazing?" she says
PAY ATTENTION: Be the first to follow YEN.com.gh on Threads! Click here!
Madina Mbabazi spent over 20 years believing that she was barren after her two marriages failed due to the same issue.
Source: UGC
The 54-year-old's first marriage, which she got into through a church wedding at the age of 17, ended after nine years.
Walked away after 9 years
According to Daily Monitor, Mbabazi chose to walk out of the marriage over never-ending insults from her sisters-in-law.
"My husband's relatives were rude and impatient because I was not getting pregnant. They brought me untold misery, so I decided to go back to my parents' home," she started.
For the next four years, the then-26-year-old divorcee remained single until she met and fell in love with a different man.
She chose to give parenting another try and got married to the man who already had three children from a previous marriage.
2nd marriage lasted 10 years
Mbabazi discloses that as much as she loved the three stepchildren like her own, she always craved for the day she would have a biological child.
Sadly, the story was not any different in the new marriage as she stayed for another 10 years without conceiving.
Despite the drama happening in her life, Mbabazi was lucky to have a supportive father who went to great lengths to seek treatment for her.
"My father hated the fact that I was unable to have a child and was willing to do anything to help me realise the dream," she continued.
Father sold cows to help
One of the biggest things her father did was sell his cows to pay medicine men whom he thought would help, but none managed to change things.
Mbabazi was crushed when her father, who was her main support system, died and left her facing the stigma alone.
Just like in her first marriage, the in-laws started tormenting her over her "barrenness," so much that she, once again, chose to walk away.
Mbabazi reveals that as much as losing her second marriage over the same issue was not easy, she gave up when one of the traditional healers asked her to sleep with him.
A new beginning
She sold all her belongings and moved to a different town looking for a fresh start where she met two women who told her about a doctor whom they believed would help.
The doctor diagnosed her problem as fibroids and performed surgery on her, after which she underwent In-Vitro Fertilisation (IVF).
In April 2022, Mbabazi was beyond overjoyed when she started having severe morning sickness and a pregnancy test came out positive.
"At six months of the pregnancy, I was told I that I was going to be a mother of three boys," she recalled with nostalgia.
Ghanaian Mom Of Triplets Appeals For Support To Take The Three Kids To SHS, Cries In Emotional Video
Previously, YEN.com.gh wrote about many people have been moved to tears by an elderly mother and her three sons after they spoke candidly about their struggles.
The mother said in a YouTube video that her children would not be able to attend SHS because there isn't enough money to cover their costs.
Social media users who responded to the video expressed sympathy for the woman, with many promising that aid would soon arrive.
New feature: Сheck out news that is picked for YOU ➡️ click on “Recommended for you” and enjoy!
Source: TUKO.co.ke
Portia Arthur (Editor) Portia Arthur holds a BA in publishing from Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology (2013). She worked as a Lifestyle editor for Pulse.com.gh for 5 years. She has worked with celebrities and footballers in image consultancy and management. She is currently the fashion editor at Yen.com.gh. She can be reached via email:portia.arthur@yen.com.gh
Audrey Gyamfi (Copy Editor) Audrey Gyamfi is a copy editor at YEN. She graduated from the University of Ghana in 2014 with a degree in Psychology and English. Audrey previously worked for 7 years as a copy editor for Kwadwoan publishing. She can be reached at audrey.gyamfi@yen.com.gh.
