"I Found My Husband On Tinder, He Said He's Single Despite Us Having 3 Kids": Expert Advises
- A married woman is confused about what to do after stumbling upon her husband's profile on Tinder
- The 29-year-old woman said after matching with her man on Tinder; he lied to her he was single without knowing he was talking to his wife
- Relationship coach Dr Love advised the woman to have a discussion with her man before thinking of making a big decision
An anonymous woman wrote:
I (29) have been married for two years with 3 kids, but of late, my husband (41) has been acting funny. I decided to join Tinder in search of a friend with benefits and shock on me I stumbled upon my husband's profile on the app. Because I use a pseudo name, I swiped right, and it was a match. He started chatting with me immediately, and he told me he was single without knowing he was talking to his wife. I am so heartbroken and confused about what to do. Should I continue with this marriage or call it quits? Please advise."
Source: UGC
Dr Love is a relationship coach currently working as a presenter at Classic 105. He co-founded a 24-hour counselling hotline in New York City that allowed teenagers and young adults a space to express themselves without judgment.
Fix your marriage
Relationship expert Dr Love applauded the woman for realising that her marriage was not working before sharing his opinion.
"Well, at least you know you are compatible. Your marriage broke down a while back even a long time ago. Keeping in mind that there is also a story behind your husband's dalliance with Tinder, maybe this feels like you are just as inadequate," he said.
He advised the woman, who seems confused and unsure about her marriage's future, to discuss with her partner.
Dr Love opined that if the couple felt were already detached and not really to amend their relationship, they could part way amicably.
"You made a commitment, so why not sit down and discuss how you got hence why you got there? You are both guilty. If your differences are unamendable, then you can both separate amicably. Your marriage is on paper only. Keep it that way if you have other expounding circumstances, but it seems like you both decided to check out," advised.
Disclaimer: Advice given in this article is general in nature and is not intended to influence readers' decisions about solving marital problems. They should always seek their own professional advice that takes into account their own personal circumstances before making a marriage decision.
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My boyfriend is ugly
YEN.com.gh reported that a young Ghanaian lady has sparked reactions online after detailing why she jilted her ex-boyfriend.
In a video sighted by YEN.com.gh on the TikTok handle of @juujee_koko, a pretty Ghanaian lady quizzed why she broke up with her ex and said it was because he was broke.
The lady added that her current boyfriend is not good-looking, but she is dating him because he has money and takes good care of her.
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