Ghanaian Lady Shares Her Relationship Experience, Says She Was The Man and The Woman

• A Ghanaian woman has opened up on her past relationship, detailing some of its flaws in an interview
• She noted that her relationship did not last due to mistakes made by both herself and her partner, including her tendency to take on the role traditionally associated with a man
• Netizens who saw the video expressed mixed reactions as some chided her, while others sympathised with her

A Ghanaian lady has opened up on the unfortunate events that led to the end of her beautiful relationship with a man.

She noted that her once cherished relationship with her ex ended abruptly due to errors from both partners.

According to her, one major flaw was her partner's failure to give grace to her as his lover. She claimed that her former lover was quick to judge and always failed to listen completely or reason with her as a partner.

"I realised my ex was someone who always jumped to conclusions. He didn't take his time to listen. The minute things don't go his way, he's jumping to conclusions, saying everything but I realised that's not healthy," she said.

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"If you are dealing with someone, you need to be patient, you need to be understanding. You need to be tolerant to listen to the other person, otherwise, what's the point,. I learnt from him to give more grace to the next person," she added.

Another factor that led to the end of their relationship was her tendency to take on the role traditionally associated with a man.

"One thing that he said he didn't want to hear but in the relationship, I was like the backbone of the relationship. Like I was the man and the woman in the relationship when it came to finances, when it came to doing things, such as going out."

"And he always felt sabotaged by that. He kept telling me I was oppressing him. I didn't make him feel like the man. And so it was very stifling for him because there were things that I could do that he couldn't do," she said.

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Reactions to lady's manly duties in relationship

Netizens who saw the video of the young woman speaking about her past relationship expressed mixed reactions in the comments section. While some supported her comments, others advised her.

@Iamxorlali wrote:

"How we pray to meet ladies of this kind with a pure heart and others take them for granted saddens me a lot."

@braqwabenathefarmer1 wrote:

"Assumptions is the mother of all {Expletive}."

@LANDLORD 1 wrote:

"Some guys are lucky in relationships yet they take these ladies for granted. How l wished l found one."

@Heavensent wrote:

"Something I will never do again….. let the man be the man….. I want to be the woman."

@Bless Fortune||ACTOR||WRITER write:

"I'm not doing that again, let's all stay single and take care of ourselves."

@Adobea wrote:

"Hmmmm may God bless our kind heart."

@IamLobe wrote:

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Adwoa Tasha cautions ladies against younger men

Earlier, YEN.com.gh reported that popular influencer Adwoa Tasha cautioned ladies against dating younger men claiming it is against their best interests.

She made the remarks during a recent interview, where she stated that women who ignore her advice may end up regretting it.

Netizens who saw the post expressed mixed reactions in the comments section of the now-viral post.

Proofreading by Samuel Gitonga, copy editor at YEN.com.gh.

Source: YEN.com.gh