Lady Dates Ghanaian Man for Seven Years, Finds Out He Married Three Years Ago

• A video of a woman sharing her heartbreaking relationship experience with a Ghanaian man has surfaced on social media
• In the video, the woman indicated that she had dated a man for seven years only to find out that he was married a few years ago
• Sharing her views, she advised netizens to always choose themselves in life and avoid putting all their trust in their partner

A young woman has been left heartbroken after her Ghanaian lover of many years allegedly jilted her after seven years together.

In a TikTok video, the woman identified as Hilaryoj said she was in a relationship with a man named Samuel until she found out he was already married.

Hilary did not elaborate on the cause of her man's decision but seemed very heartbroken in her video.

She shared a video of herself at the hospital receiving treatment after the incident and advised her followers to choose themselves in life.

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The young woman hurled curses at her lover in question and indicated that learnt from her incident that nothing in life beats showing love to oneself.

"I dated him for seven years only to find out in 2025 that he got married three years ago. Samuel, God will surely visit you," she wrote.

The Instagram video is included below:

Exit a relationship that’s not leading to marriage

Speaking to YEN.com.gh, a relationship coach, Apostle Eric Okai advised people in long-term relationships that do not lead to marriage to quit.

"If a relationship is not progressing toward marriage after a reasonable period, it’s crucial to assess the commitment level. Ten years is a long time, and if one partner is still not ready to settle, it may indicate a lack of intention. Ideally, couples should have clear conversations about timelines and expectations within 2-3 years. If marriage is a goal and there’s no progress, it may be time to move on."

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Netizens divided over Ghanaian man jilting lover

Netizens who saw the video of the young woman speaking about her past relationship were curious.

Being betrayed by a lover can be painful, however, netizens contend it might not be entirely Samuel's fault.

While some sympathised and consoled her in the comments, others were curious to know his side of the story.

They believe the decision did not just come up but was influenced by some factors. Others accused the lady of having a bad character, hence Samuel's decision to exit the relationship.

Another group of commenters advised the lady to move on with her life since her Ghanaian lover clearly did not deserve her.

@Youngmawulli wrote:

"Can we hear Samuel otu’s side of the story too."

@EBUKA (BUKA-T)🇳🇬 wrote:

"Na so oo, as u get ur own time to settle, Samuel don move ahead."

@Kofi Ameyaw Amponsah wrote:

"Since most of y'all believe in Karma, let's ask the lady if she has broken someone's heart and her karma was Samuel Otu."

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@Soulful Scribbles wrote:

"Nothing will happen to Samuel Otu, just move on girl."

@Hopecindy wrote:

"Samuel Otu you are okay for wasting my gender time."

@Mersii wrote:

"Oh my God sorry babe💕💕💕💕 Samuel Otu won’t know peace."

@Wonder boy 1 wrote:

"Nothing will do Samuel otu brotherhood is proud of him."

Ghanaian nurse cries out as husband cheats

Earlier, YEN.com.gh reported on a video of a Ghanaian woman lamenting how her husband and a friend betrayed her.

In the viral TikTok video, the sad woman explained that her very good friend had taken her husband away from her.

Based on the bitter experience, the lady said in the viral video that marriage was a waste of time, sparking reactions.

Proofreading by Bruce Douglas, copy editor at YEN.com.gh.

Source: YEN.com.gh