Ghanaian Man Recounts How His Wife Saved Him From Cheating, Praises Her In Video
- A video of a Ghanaian man speaking on how his wife saved him from cheating in their marriage has surfaced
- He noted that but for her drawing his attention to his possible actions, he would have messed with their bond
- Netizens who saw the video agreed with the man's remarks and also applauded him in the comments section
- Speaking exclusively to YEN.com.gh, a marriage counsellor gave some tips on how to deal with cheating in marriages
A Ghanaian man has recounted how his wife saved their marriage some time ago.
In a candid confession, the man, known as @Elder Adjei on TikTok, noted that he nearly fell into a cheating trap at work.
Sharing his story in a TikTok video, he noted that the organisation he worked for hired a new female staff who was very affable.
Source: TikTok
Due to her friendly nature, he got close to her and exchanged contact with her. Their conversations started moving from brief to intense.
At one point, his wife observed the changes in his behaviour and asked if another woman was in his life. He was taken aback and asked why she was asking that question.
She then opened up about the changes in his behaviour, drawing his attention as well. Since then, he has become conscious of his actions and set boundaries for the new employee.
He, thus, advised men to be open-minded and respectful of their wives' observations and opinions since they could save them in critical situations.
He further acknowledged his wife's efforts in saving their marriage when he had not even noticed what was happening around him.
Watch the video below:
Exercise self-control in marriage
In an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, a marriage counsellor, Apostle Eric Okine, gave some tips on dealing with cheating in marriages.
First, he advised couples to communicate about everything, be transparent and also exercise self-control.
"As a counsellor, almost everyone I discussed with about cheating in a relationship spoke on the need for communication as one of the key methods to prevent it. A relationship where communication is not paramount will definitely struggle and probably collapse. Also, practice transparency. Cheating is like embezzling money in a public establishment; the only way to prevent it is by putting systems in place. Transparency and communication usually go hand in hand. Moreover, exercising self-control is equally important.
"I read of a story where a boy that was apprehended by the police for stealing was also caught trying to pickpocket a police officer while in custody. Without discipline, even with the best systems in place, cheating could still happen. Discipline is therefore needed to reduce the possibility of cheating."
Netizens hail Elder Adjei over his remarks
Netizens who saw the video of Elder Adjei were enlightened and thanked him for the remarks in the comments section.
@kpenyezy wrote:
"Mine will deny it 100 times even when you caught him in the act."
@Oria wrote:
"How I wish he could see the video."
@miss_Obed wrote:
"Hmmmm I will write a book."
@Phati wrote:
"Hopping this will go viral."
@Yaanaa Asante wrote:
"Elder thanks for this kind of advice, if all men will listen and learn."
Ghanaian man storms cheating girlfriend's home
YEN.com.gh also reported that a young Ghanaian man stormed his girlfriend's home to reclaim all the items he had purchased for her.
In a video, he explained that despite providing all her needs and sponsoring her nursing training education, she cheated on him.
Proofread by Bruce Douglas, senior copy editor at YEN.com.gh
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