Mzbel Says She Would Never Get Married: "Marriages Are Full Of Drama"
- Musician Mzbel has opened up about why she preferred dating and having children over getting married
- She explained that she loved her peace and space and that she disliked societal expectations put on couples
- The video got many people sharing their views, with some agreeing with her views on love and marriage
- Ghanaian counsellor BAKA highlighted the reasons why some ladies choose not to marry and its relation to the population
Celebrated musician Mzbel, in a viral video, expressed her views on marriage and why she decided never to get married.
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Mzbel's views on marriage
In an exclusive interview on KingdomFM, Mzbel said that she has never been married before and does not plan to do so in the future. However, she noted that she does date men.
The mother of two noted that she had dated for so many years to the extent that she had been gifted a ring. Sharing the purpose of the ring given to her, she said that her baby daddy decided to gift it to her after giving birth.
"It's called 'born give me' ring," Mzbel said in jest.
The Asibolanga hitmaker flaunted the ring in the video and spoke about the jewellery with excitement, saying she loved it because it showed someone appreciated that she would carry a child for them who would bear their last name.
Mzbel also said she was proud of the gesture and wore it all the time. Without disclosing the ring's worth, she said it was expensive and fancy.
Below is the video of Mzbel's views on marriage:
In the same interview, she explained why she planned never to get married. She said she likes her peace and space and did not expect her partner to announce to the world that they are together.
"Weddings are announcements. It means that I am announcing to everybody that you are the only person I will share a bed with. So when people see you talking to another man, they say a married woman and you are talking to another man; a married woman cannot be wearing mini skirts. I do not want that title."
Mzbel, who has kept the identity of her baby daddy a mystery, explained that she also did not want societal expectations to dictate her life and that of her partner, such as people having issues with a married man having a good time in the club.
Comments on Mzbel's view on marriage
Many women in the comment section agreed with Mzbel's views on marriage and shared some of the struggles that women encounter when they tie the knot.
The comments on the video are below:
DGS🇬🇭❤️ said:
"At least I have someone who thinks like me😂😂😂"
koo said:
"This lady is the very real"
find truth only said:
"we that 30s who are still not interested in marriage plez let raise our hands now"
delilahsampson7 said:
"I agree with her marriage is very stressful 😂"
OFFICIAL SECRETARY💜 said:
"I wish my fellow women will agree with her 🥰🥰"
judy_slowvee said:
"I totally agree with her. We owe our life to ourselves 😂"
Linda_Asante said:
"Mzbel you will grow long wai. But look for Christ our Lord Jesus🥰"
Irene Johnson591 said:
"Some people think marriage is the end goal🤦♀️😂💔"
"There's nothing wrong with women choosing not to marry": Counsellor BAKA
In an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, Counsellor BAKA noted that not every woman would aspire to marry and that there was nothing wrong with that.
According to data from Statista, in 2023, Ghana's female population was approximately 17.11 million, while the male population was approximately 17.02 million. Based on this, Counsellor BAKA noted that statistically not every woman can marry.
"Because looking at the ratio of women to the men available, the population of women in this world is three times more than the men. So those who decide not to marry are helping to balance the equation," he said.
He noted that every woman should aspire to marriage, especially if they have not committed themselves to celibacy.
However, he noted that if the lady's choice not to marry is because of bad motives, past experiences, clinical issues or any misunderstanding about the institution of marriage, then the person needs a counsellor.
"God, after creation, saw that everything that he had created was good, so marriage is a good thing. But there is nothing wrong with a lady who decides not to marry, it's the reason for not wanting to marry that matters."
Mzbel danced on stage
YEN.com.gh also reported that Mzbel embarrassed herself on stage during a performance at the CT Entertainment Ghana 'Ultimate Live Experience'.
The musical event was held on Sunday, July 28, 2024, with Mzbel's dancers overpowering her with their incredible moves during the performance.
The video got many people on social media, criticising Mzbel over her dance moves and also applauding the performance of her dancers in the comments.
Proofread by Bruce Douglas, senior copy editor at YEN.com.gh
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