Ghanaian Man Shares Five "Don'ts" For Women In Relationships: "Bitter Truth"

• A video of a Ghanaian man advising ladies on mistakes to avoid in relationship relationships has surfaced online
• The young man in the viral video insisted that ladies should not do these five things since they can be off-putting
• Netizens who saw the video were very impressed and took to the comments section to share their views

A Ghanaian man has shared some thought-provoking advice for ladies in relationships. In a viral video, he advised ladies to avoid these five pitfalls since they can be very off-putting.

Don't beg him to take you back

The first piece of advice the man offered is to avoid begging a man to take you back after a breakup. He indicated that a man who decides to break up with you has already made up his mind, and nothing except him can change it. He added that pleading for reconciliation reduces one's self-respect and is unlikely to change his decision.

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Don't beg for his attention

The second piece of advice he gave ladies was to avoid begging for a man's attention. He emphasised in his video that men invest their attention where their heart belongs. If a woman finds herself constantly seeking attention from her partner, it may be a sign that his feelings are not as strong.

Don't beg him to stay

When a man decides to leave or initiates a breakup, he advises women against begging him to stay. He indicated that his decision to go may sound heartbreaking, but he would realise a void when a "good woman" leaves. He added that allowing a man to leave on his terms can lead to a greater appreciation of what he had rather than holding onto a relationship that isn't mutually fulfilling.

Don't be too available

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His advice continued with a caution against being too available or giving too much attention. He urged women not to call their partners "too much," adding that a man would feel there is no need to call if you call him many times a day. According to the man, men tend to value women who are not always readily available, which creates a sense of want and respect.

Never Be Desperate for a Man

Finally, the man advised women never to appear desperate for a man. He indicated that desperation can be off-putting and may lead to a lack of respect from the partner. Instead, women are encouraged to maintain their independence and self-worth and ensure they are valued in the relationship.

Watch the video below:

Netizens agree with man's assertions

Netizens who saw the video agreed with the Ghanaian man's assertions, and many expressed their views in the comment section.

@VAMJESUS wrote:

"Wisdom is speaking."

@Maame Serwaa wrote:

"Sisterhood is making you president next week."

@iturbbygalguccilina wrote:

"What if he made it clear before starting the relationship, he is not the calling type."

@mimideep_7 wrote:

"We must protect this man at all cost."

Ghanaian man shares nine red flags

In an earlier publication, YEN.com.gh reported that a Ghanaian man has shared nine red flags ladies should look out for in their relationships.

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In the viral video, the man asked ladies to avoid men with the nine behaviours he spoke about entirely.

Source: YEN.com.gh