Man Warns Men from Sleeping Over At Women's Place: "Stop Dictating"

Man Warns Men from Sleeping Over At Women's Place: "Stop Dictating"

  • A Kenyan TikToker ignited mixed reactions after warning men against spending nights at women's houses
  • Good Joseph wondered how some men comfortably sleep in houses where they won't pay rent and even demand to be given special treatment
  • The TikToker urged men to at least help women financially and not to be choosy and take whatever is offered by their hosts

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A TikToker identified as Good Joseph has elicited mixed reactions after cautioning men against spending nights at women's houses.

A couple in bed with a man (r) snoring, while a woman (l) building castles in the air.
Man cautions men against sleeping at women's house. Photo used for illustration purposes. Photo: Getty Images.
Source: UGC

Why men shouldn't sleep over at women's houses

In a video he shared on TikTok, Joseph warned men not to go for sleepovers at women's places, opining that it was risky.

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He urged men to atleast help the women with their bills, like doing shopping for them or little tyhings that would make them happy, and not just show up bare handed.

"Usiwahi lala kwa dem. Kuna hii breed mpya unapata jamaa ameenda kwa dem hajabeba hata shopping na ikifika time ya kula, anakula na kulala. Analala hata ndethe na haogopi (Never sleep at a woman's place. There's this new breed of men who go to women's places and don't even bother to go with shopping, and when it's time to eat, they eat and sleep. They even sleep without clothes and aren't afraid)," he said.

He further urged them not to be choosy and take whatever was offered by the host.

"Stop dictating and take care of smaller things.

Here is the video:

Though some netizens supported his sentiments, some, especially men, claimed there was nothing wrong with sleeping over at a woman's house even without providing.

Reactions to the video include:

Miltonwanyonyi said:

"Mimi hulala uko daily bro."

Rinfixy said:

"Eti I have been working the whole week I have come to rest for two days..mseee! Bila hata a quater sugar?"

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Nanalynnechao said:

"I am tempted to tag someone ."

Mutheu her majesty said:

" Red flags."

Triple K said:

"Me hulala ndethe huko every weekend ."

User23261722137522 said:

"How can I post it without posting it?."

Nyakwar Janeko slams men who sleep in women's houses

In an earlier publication, YEN.com.gh reported that two in every 10 married Ghanaian men have cheated on their wives before.

This was revealed in the 2022 Ghana Demographic and Health Survey.

A total of 63,247 individuals were interviewed for this survey by the Ghana Statistical Service.

The survey also revealed that out of the aforementioned figure, 17.5% of married men have two or more partners who are not their wives.

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