- A video of a young lady expressing her unhappiness over her inability to get a lover has caused a stir online
- In a video, she observed that men are scared to date ladies who are single mothers
- Some netizens who reacted to the video admitted that they do not like to go out with single ladies
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A young Ghanaian lady has sparked a massive reaction on social media after expressing her frustration over her difficulty getting a lover.
Taken to TikTok, the young lady who identified herself as @genieahkosuahadepa2 said she has observed that guys in recent times do not want to date ladies who are single mothers.
The lady who had her baby at her back buttressed her point by adding that the reason some men have taken such a stance against single mothers is that they do not want to date to take care of the kids.
"Men of late do not want to date we the born one ladies. I have observed that the men shy away from us because they do not want to take care of the kids. Now do you want to hide our kids or what, " she said.
At the time of writing the report, the video had gathered over 5000 likes and 700 comments
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Commenting on the issue, Counsellor Kweku Adumatta first explained that the notion that young single mothers have difficulty getting partners is a gross misconception.
He remarked that most often, such women have low esteem because of their situation and hence do not focus on their strengths and the value they bring on board when they are in a relationship.
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“Who said if you are a single mother, you cannot marry, there are men looking for ladies like that, the issue is that you have not positioned yourself well.
Offering a piece of advice, Mr Adumaata admonished the young single mother in this situation to first accept the fact she has a child.
He also highlighted the need for her to be willing to let go of her past and, finally, be able to move on.
"Moving on basically means you acquaint yourself with success stories of women who were in such situations and are now married, what is it that they do, try to develop yourself and broaden your understanding about some of these things".
He finally urged her not to pay heed to what naysayers would say, but rather strive to strengthen her relationship with God
Ghanaians react to the comments on the lady
The 15-second video gathered a lot of reactions, with many people saying they do not fancy going in for single mothers
Omelly Joecrack commented:
Have you ever seen a football match starting with one nail 0:1
hummm Dear some people like me,we tried this to marry born one but after you will see that they are dating their son father again
Have you seen a world cup match starting with 1:0
DR. Pope indicated:
Most of the Born ones are not faithful at all
Lady admits her boyfriend is ugly
Earlier, YEN.com.gh reported that a lady caused a stir after detailing why she jilted her ex-boyfriend.
Quizzed on why she broke up with her ex, the lover said it was because he was broke.
The lady added that her current boyfriend is not good-looking, but she is dating him because he has money and takes good care of her.
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