Ghanaian Lady Insists New Boyfriend Pays Loan She And Her Ex Took To Prove His Love For Her

• A Ghanaian young man has recently been left in a state where he is struggling to find the right step to take
• An anonymous post had him revealing that the woman he is currently dating has asked him to pay off a loan she went in for with an ex some time back
• He also shared that refusing to pay off the loan would result in his partner losing all she owns as collateral, and he is unsure what to do

A confused Ghanaian young man has recently resorted to netizens to help him solve his dilemma.

The Facebook post sighted by YEN.com.gh on the timeline of 'Sister Sister' had the young man anonymously revealing that the lady he is currently dating has insisted he pays off a loan she took with her former boyfriend. According to him, the lady wants him to use that to prove his love for her and to prevent her from losing her properties as collateral, but he believes it is not the right thing to do.

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The actual post read;

Hi Sisters, post this for me, my new girlfriend wants me to pay for a loan that she took with her ex and used. I have tried explaining to her that it's not right, but she insists I should pay it if I love her to avoid her things being auctioned. Sisters, I really need help. What should I do?

Madam Akua Amissah, a certified marriage counsellor based in Takoradi, shared her opinion about the young man's dilemma in an interview with YEN.com.gh;

"The two are in a relationship, and it is perfectly ok to help each other in times of need. However, it is unfair for the lady to guilt-trick her partner into settling all her debt. The best thing would be for the young man to help pay the debt and not take full responsibility. The lady's ex too must be involved in the payment. He must not go scot-free", she said.

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Many who saw the post had a lot to say. Over 150 people have reacted to it at the time of this publication, and more than 60 comments have been gathered.

Lady Shares Her Struggle To Ask Her Man To Pay Back GH₵5k He Owes Her After Buying iPhone 13 For Her

Meanwhile, YEN.com.gh earlier reported that a Ghanaian lady recently sparked massive reactions among social media users after opening up about a dilemma she finds herself in.

The post sighted by YEN.com.gh on the popular Facebook page, Tell It Moms had the lady anonymously sharing that her man owes her GH₵5,000, which she urgently needs, but she just received iPhone 13 Pro Max from him as a birthday present, and now, she is unsure if she should still ask for her money back.

She added that her partner also wants to take her on a romantic trip to Ada, which costs a lot, and that makes her very unhappy because he owes her but chooses to spend his money on other things instead of settling his debt.

Source: YEN.com.gh