Young Ghanaian Lady Shares Frustration As Male Friend Ignores Her To Pursue Another Lady

Young Ghanaian Lady Shares Frustration As Male Friend Ignores Her To Pursue Another Lady

  • A young lady expressed frustration after her male friend of six to seven months failed to notice her romantic interest
  • She complained that despite her clear signs of affection, he showed interest in her friend after meeting her for just two hours
  • Feeling hurt, the lady refused to help him pursue her friend, lamenting that neither of them would enjoy the relationship

A young Ghanaian lady has expressed frustration over her unreciprocated affection for a male friend she has known for about six to seven months.

The lady lamented how her subtle gestures of love had gone unnoticed by the man, who had yet to ask her out despite their long-standing friendship.

Ghanaian lady unhappy about male friends decision to woo her female friend.
Ghanaian lady accuses her male friend of ignoring her feelings and asking for help to woo her friend. Photo credit: FG Trade & ljubaphoto
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In a video on X, the lady explained that she had been dropping hints and showing signs of affection, but her friend failed to respond or acknowledge her feelings.

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To her dismay, after meeting one of her female friends for just two hours, the man expressed romantic interest in her friend and sought her help in wooing the woman.

In an emotional outburst, the lady questioned why the man failed to recognise her love and shifted his attention to someone he barely knew.

โ€œWe have been friends for about six to seven months, and youโ€™ve not asked me out. You have failed to see all my actions, which show that I love you, and said nothing in that regard to me. You met a friend of mine for only two hours, and you want me to help you woo her. Why am I a stick?โ€

She further expressed her frustration by stating that neither she nor her friend would enjoy the relationship.

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Watch the video below:

Netizens react to frustrated lady's video

Social media users shared mixed opinions on the lady's video shared by @JasperZiggle. YEN.com.gh collated some comments. Read them below:

@Iam_Monney said:

"It really hurt ladies when you sister zone dem ooo lol but they will happily brother zone you"

@That_Mr_breezy wrote:

"If you dey like am why you no tell am...ah women"

@1_neil_ken said:

"๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚daabi oo den come bounce me er"

@OcJunior11 wrote:

"You propose give am too you go chop bounce"

@KwasiRain11 said:

"This happened to me before oooooh ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€"

@Whill1GAD wrote:

"My paddy be ein story"

@manLike_Cecil69 said:

"Ah so why didn't she make the first move then ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚"

@NarteyNar5454 wrote:

"You too can tell me that you like me. why do I have to be the first person to tell you"

@mastapee01 said:

"She dier she be regular customer make we discharge the new one then we focus on home matches u barb"

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Refer male friends to single female friends

Meanwhile, YEN.com.gh reported that a Ghanaian lady entreated women to connect their male friends to their single female friends.

According to her, several single ladies are searching for partners, hence her stance.

The TikTok video showed many Ghanaian men sharing their thoughts on her words.

Proofread by Berlinda Entsie, journalist and copy editor at YEN.com.gh

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Magdalene Larnyoh (Human-Interest editor) Magdalene Larnyoh writes for the Human Interest Desk at YEN.com.gh. She has over ten years of experience in media and communications. She previously worked for Citi FM, Pulse Ghana, and Business Insider Africa. She obtained a BA in Social Sciences from the University of Cape Coast (UCC) in 2012. Reach out to her on magdalene.larnyoh@yen.com.gh