Elderly Ghanaian Woman Advises Young Ladies On How To Woo Their In-Laws: "Wake Up Early To Sweep"

• An elderly Ghanaian woman shared some tips with single ladies who hope to settle down with their preferred partners
• The woman said the young ladies must do well to impress their in-laws who will then push for their marriage
• However, social media reactions showed that many people disagreed with the woman on her assertions

An elderly Ghanaian woman advised young ladies hoping to get married on how to win their in-laws over with their actions if they get to sleep over in their homes.

The woman said any lady who acts on the tips she gave will succeed in getting their partner to settle down with them.

In a video on X, the elderly woman encouraged young ladies in such a category to wake up early and do all the house chores even before the members of the household get out of bed.

"When your boyfriend invites you for a sleep over at his parent's house, wake up early. As a lady hoping to get married to him, you wake up between 3:30 am and 4 am to sweep and clean the kitchen, hall and every other place that must be tidied."

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"When you are done, you check the bathroom and scrub the place. After that, wash the dirty clothes of your boyfriend. Go to your mother-in-law and ask her if she has any dirty clothes. If she responds in the affirmative, take her dirty clothes too and wash them. Do the same for your sisters-in-law. You are doing all these because you want the man," she added.

The woman claimed that if a young lady exhibits such humility, the potential mother-in-law will push for the son to marry the person.

However, several people in the comment section disagreed with her.

Watch the video below:

Ghanaians disagree with woman on marriage tips

YEN.com.gh collated some reactions to the post shared by @pearl_batista on X. Read them below:

@akorfaa_ said:

"🤣🤣 My father's house, kraa what time do I wake up?😂😂."

@_mema___ wrote:

"They won’t even marry the one that does this😭."

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@Pinto_Clarks said:

"Eish, is the washing of the sisters' clothes not too extra? Anaa 🤨."

@charllycolegh wrote:

"Eiii boi, wash his sisters' clothes too, apuu. I second whatever she said but his sisters' clothes fiakwa 🤦‍♀️."

@E_kumpz said:

"Hahaha. Typical me. So I had this girl. Had been with her for 2 years. We were doing guest houses often. I got a place and she decided to come and spend some time. I woke up at 6 to sweep and clean whilst she was sleeping. Not once not twice Buh was like is she dumb or blind."

@MrMa_nuel wrote:

"Moo bl3 o ei... 3:30 to 4😂😂 why would I deliberately leave my bathroom dirty if my gf is coming? @S3kyerewaa,The day you go your man ein family house dem go tell you this thing... what you go do? 😂😂."

@SamKwasiBoateng said:

"As always the wisdom is in balancing both sides. You may not be able to wake up at 4 am but 9 am is probably not a wise time, especially in your in-law's house. There's a place for disrupting and a place for adapting."

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Green flags ladies should look out for

YEN.com.gh reported that a US-based Ghanaian woman shared some tips with single ladies on how to choose the right man.

Mama Blessing said it is important to observe the man and see the necessary "green flags."

Social media users who watched her TikTok video thronged the comment section to share their thoughts.

Proofreading by Samuel Gitonga, copy editor at YEN.com.gh.

Source: YEN.com.gh