Ghanaian Woman Shares How She Found Love In The Forest After Painful Heartbreak: "Didn't Expect It"
- A video of a Ghanaian woman sharing how she found true love after a previous heartbreak has gone viral
- In a YouTube video, the woman stated that she met the love of her life in a forest when she went there to pray
- Speaking exclusively to YEN.com.gh, a relationship advised people against falling in love immediately after a heartbreak
A Ghanaian woman, Esther, has recounted her heartwarming story of how she found love in the most unexpected place - a forest.
In a YouTube video, she noted that after a devastating heartbreak from her ex-lover, she honoured a friend's invitation to pray in the forest.
During this period, she met her husband, Eric, who had also come to pray in the forest.
"I was reluctant to go for the [prayer] programme because I was in pain from what my boyfriend at the time was doing to me, but then I addressed up and decided to go to the Achimota Forest where the programme was being held," she said.
Women explains finding love in a forest
Further in the video, Esther indicated that she was reluctant to open up to Eric in the beginning due to her painful encounter with her past boyfriend.
"He later took my number and called on several occasions, but I didn't answer his calls. He asked me out one day, and I disappointed him. The second time, I wanted to disappoint [him] but I just said let me honour this invitation. So I was even late, I think, about two hours."
However, she later softened up for him and gave him a chance. Eventually, their love grew, and they became a couple.
Watch the video below:
Take care of yourself after a breakup
Speaking exclusively to YEN.com.gh, a relationship coach Mr Love the Coach (MLTC), shared some tips on how to get over a heartbreak. He advised against falling immediately in love after a heartbreak.
"When you're brokenhearted, it is called a crisis. Broken heart syndrome is a crisis. So, when you are in crisis, the first thing to do is acknowledge that this is a crisis. This is painful. Acknowledge the pain and the emotions that come with it. Don't fight the emotions. Don't try to be hard or strong. Cry when you have to cry. So allow yourself to grieve. Don't feel like a fool. Like, if you are grieving or crying, you're feeling pain. Don't feel like a fool. It's ok. It's important to grieve. Give yourself the time to feel and process the emotions that come with a breakup. Grieving is a natural part of healing. If you don't do that, you will store up.
"Cry, weep, like just let it go, and the grieving process for everybody is different. It takes time for a lot of people. The times are different. So we can't say grief for one month, grief for one week, grief for two weeks. No, allow yourself to grieve and allow the process to take you. This is not the period or the time to fall in love again. You don't fall in love or look for somebody else to touch you within this period. No, no, no, no, no, no. You’ll make terrible mistakes,” he said.
Netizens react to Esther's story
Netizens who saw the video were touched by the story and shared their views about the young woman's exciting love story in the comments section.
@Horseglass wrote:
"I'm going to Achimota forest asap."
@Lifeofbrianna wrote:
"Let me go find someone kiss and touch heart."
@Lawyer Emprez BOS wrote:
"Where can I pick a car to Achimota forest."
@Kwadwo_Virgin wrote:
"She made the whole thing easy ..I'VE BEEN FOLLOWIMG ABENA FOR 6 YEARS."
@Abby wrote:
"Achimota forest here I come."
@Akua Nketsiaba wrote:
"Oh God, am i also tour daughter? lol."
@Cynthia SENIAGYA wrote:
"It's a mystery .love goes where love is."
@Akorfa wrote:
"Love therapy."
Ghanaian lady recounts how her boyfriend cheated
In a related story, YEN.com.gh earlier reported that a Ghanaian lady had recounted how her boyfriend cheated on her.
The lady stated that she urged her boyfriend to visit a church for a breakthrough but instead found out that he was unfaithful.
Proofread by Bruce Douglas, senior copy editor at YEN.com.gh
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