Ghanaian Man Shares What He Did To Keep His Relationship: "I Was Washing Her Clothes"

Ghanaian Man Shares What He Did To Keep His Relationship: "I Was Washing Her Clothes"

  • A video of a Ghanaian man speaking on how he maintained his relationship in the past has surfaced online
  • He noted in a video that he was a very supportive partner who assisted his woman with all the house chores
  • Netizens who saw the video had mixed feelings as some said it was no big deal and others sympathised
  • In an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, a Ghanaian counselor and relationship coach, gave insights on this

A Ghanaian man has triggered mixed reactions online after opening up about the events of his past relationship.

Speaking to Silent Beads, he noted that he fell in love with a lady and decided to support her in every way he could.

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A Ghanaian man shares what he did to maintain his relationship. Image source: Silent Beads
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While he wasn't financially endowed, he wanted to prove himself, so he took it upon himself to assist with the domestic chores.

He noted that he took up the role of cleaning, washing the lady's clothes, and filling empty barrels with water to prove his love.

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He noted that some neighbours made fun of the situation and laughed at him but this did not stop him from being very loving.

He noted that despite all his sacrifices in their relationship, they did not settle as a couple - the relationship ended in pain.

Watch the video below:

No house chores in relationships

In an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, a Ghanaian counselor and relationship coach, Pastor Eric Okai advised people in relationships against performing duties of husbands and wives.

"It is very bad to wash and perform house chores for your partner in a relationship. Relationship is not marriage. Let's desist from this father christmas attitude by investing in people we don't know their fate in our lives."

Netizens divided over Ghanaian man's story

Netizens who saw the video expressed mixed reactions in the comments section.

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While some sympathised with him, others said nothing was wrong with the man assisting his partner with all the chores.

@RasBarry wrote:

"I don't know why I see nothing wrong with this."

@Ofson wrote:

"He didn't understand the psychology of women at the time. If you really understand women you will not dare do what this man did."

@Sassy_styled_me wrote:

"The guy in white, please im interested."

@Trig wrote:

"Wabr3 oo."

@CHAIRMAN EDDIEPACO wrote:

"hmm this your show brings a whole lot memories when ever I see your program."

@Kirby Mettle wrote:

"I’d rather be single and manage my gari."

Woman gets betrayed by lover abroad

Meanwhile, YEN.com.gh earlier reported that a Ghanaian woman had recounted how a man she dearly loved betrayed her abroad.

She noted that they both travelled to study but because they both had no proper documentation, her lover hatched a scheme.

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He told the woman that he would marry a woman only for the papers they needed and then divorce her, but things went south.

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Jessie Ola-Morris (Human-Interest Editor) Jessie Ola-Morris is a Human Interest editor at YEN.com.gh. She has over three years of experience in journalism. She graduated from the Ghana Institute of Journalism in 2022 with a Bachelor's degree in Communication Studies. Her journalism career started with myjoyonline.com, a subsidiary of The Multimedia Group Limited, where she worked as a writer. Jessie also previously served as a multimedia journalist for The Independent Ghana. In 2024, Jessie completed Google News Initiative News Lab courses in Advanced Digital Reporting and Fighting Misinformation. Email: jessie.ola-morris@yen.com.gh