Anita Akuffo Says Men Who Speak To Their Exes Are Red Flags, Video Generates A Debate
- Media personality Anita Akuffo got many people talking when she mentioned her red flags about men in an interview with TV3's 3Xtra
- In the video, she said that men who are still friends with their exes were what she considered a red flag
- The video got many people sharing diverse opinions in the comment section, while others talked about her beauty
- A Ghanaian counsellor spoke to YEN.com.gh on the topic of exes being friends and whether it was a wise decision
Seasoned media personality Anita Akuffo opened up about things she considered red flags regarding men.
Source: Instagram
Anita Akuffo's red flags
In an exclusive interview with TV3's 3Xtra, Anita Akuffo was asked whether she would consider dating a man who was friends with all his exes.
Reacting to the question in the video, she shouted, "Run, run," and said that such men are considered red flags.
"You do not have to ask me that. It is so red," she said while waving a red flag in the air.
In the video, the media personality even requested for a bigger red flag to wave or even more red flags to express her dissatisfaction.
"A man who is friends with his exes? This [the red flag she waved] multiplied by 1,000 that is the kind of flag he is."
In the caption of the Instagram post, Anita Akuffo said that despite wearing a red-themed look, she was only attracted to green flags.
"I’m wearing red but I’m a walking green flag😊🏃♀️."
Video of Anita Akuffo's red flags.
Reactions to Anita Akuffo's video
Below are the opinions of Ghanaians on the video of Anita Akuffo talking about red flags:
sophies_makeovers said:
"Can we get 100 yards of PLAIN RED material?"
iamchrislarry said:
"U can only be friends or cool with ur exes if only u are really mature minded or u aren't too emotional being.....NB: my two cents 🙏"
michelle_ghandour said:
"Can the flag be redder than this 😂😂😍"
mr._shine_richy said:
"It's a red flag until she's the one being friends with her ex"
j0ey_gh said:
"I think whoever thinks this is a red flag is actually the red flag. If you know how to regulate your emotions and set boundaries, there is nothing wrong with that"
"Being on good terms with your ex is not a red flag" - Counsellor
In an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, counsellor Daniel Fenyi said that there is nothing wrong with being friends with one's exes.
He said that it was prudent that former lovers ended things on a good note and even if things ended badly, it was advisable to make peace.
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"If you are in a relationship with someone and you break up and move on from that relationship, you should not become enemies. You should still be having normal vibes."
Mr Fenyi said that despite being friends with your ex, one should be able to set boundaries. He said that friendship should not be a nuisance to one's new relationship.
He said that one's current partner should not have issues with how one communicates with one former lover. He said that conversations should be kept brief and straight to the point.
"Do not meet them in isolated places. We do not expect regular meetings,. Be flexible but do not let any of your past relationships interfere with the present" he said.
Man shares nine red flags
YEN.com.gh reported that a Ghanaian man, in a video, advised women on the nine red flags they should look out for in men.
In the viral video, the man said women should avoid men with the nine behaviours he mentioned.
Many social media users who saw the video shared their views in the comment sections, generating a debate.
Proofread by Edwina N.K Quarcoo, journalist and copy editor at YEN.com.gh.
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