UPSA Student Advises Ghanaian Ladies Against Sending Money To Their Boyfriends: "Never Do It"

UPSA Student Advises Ghanaian Ladies Against Sending Money To Their Boyfriends: "Never Do It"

  • A young Ghanaian lady has ignited a debate on social media after offering a piece of advice to women
  • The lady, who is a student of UPSA, advised other ladies not to offer any form of financial assistance to their boyfriends
  • Netizens who saw the video were taken aback and took to the comment section to express their views
  • A renowned counselor who spoke exclusively with YEN.com.gh, however, kicked against her advice

A UPSA student has advised women not to offer their boyfriends any financial support.

In a viral video, the young lady asserted that it was wrong for any woman to give their lover money. She contended that a woman is not responsible for supporting her partner financially. Therefore, no woman should feel obligated to offer their partners money.

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A UPSA student is advising fellow ladies against sending money to their boyfriends. Image source: The Savage Room
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She made the remarks during a podcast called The Savage Room on YouTube. The host asked the young lady when she had last sent money to her boyfriend. Surprisingly, she noted that she had never sent money to a guy.

When further queried, she asserted that it was not her responsibility as a woman to send money to her man. On the contrary, men are supposed to send money to their partners since it's their responsibility.

Watch the video below:

Counsellor kicks against UPSA student's advice

In an exclusive interview with YEN.com.gh, a renowned Ghanaian Counselor expressed his views. Counselor Daniel Fenyi criticized the lady's advice, stressing the need for financial independence for both men and women in relationships.

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"Financial security is an essential aspect of a stable life. In situations where relationships may end or when a partner may face financial difficulties, having one's own income acts as a safety net. This security is especially important in a world where economic uncertainties are common, and relying solely on someone else for financial stability can lead to vulnerability. By making their own money, women can protect themselves from such risks and ensure their financial well-being regardless of external circumstances."

UPSA student receives massive backlash over comments

The lady has been highly criticised for her remarks. Many were disappointed in her for making the statement.

@kingofaccra wrote:

"He's my daddy lmao."

@I_Am_Winter wrote:

"There are so many beautiful women out there these days that believe relationships is like a salary. All they bring to the table is sex and drama whiles billing their partner without reciprocating. This is why you should not date ladies between 18-26 years. Plenty no get sense.

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@views09 wrote:

"Any lady who has the mentality “my money belongs to me but my boyfriend’s money belongs to us” should be left in the trenches.You date such you will cry, a word to the wise is in the north. I arrest my case."

@Dadzie_Daily wrote:

"An educated girl won’t come on air to be chatting."

@OwerekoKwame wrote:

"What She is saying she doesn't understand herself. Until Men begin to set Standards these women will continue to behave like this."

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Jessie Ola-Morris (Human-Interest Editor) Jessie Ola-Morris is a Human Interest editor at YEN.com.gh. She has over three years of experience in journalism. She graduated from the Ghana Institute of Journalism in 2022 with a Bachelor's degree in Communication Studies. Her journalism career started with myjoyonline.com, a subsidiary of The Multimedia Group Limited, where she worked as a writer. Jessie also previously served as a multimedia journalist for The Independent Ghana. In 2024, Jessie completed Google News Initiative News Lab courses in Advanced Digital Reporting and Fighting Misinformation. Email: jessie.ola-morris@yen.com.gh