PM Extra's Hermes Shares Her Views On Love And Finance: "My Money is Mine, But His Money Is Ours"

• A video of Perfect Match Extra contestant Hermes sharing her views on financing in relationships has surfaced
• The young lady stoked an online debate with her controversial statement that her money is hers, but her partner's money is theirs
• A relationship coach who spoke exclusively to YEN.com.gh disagreed with Hermes' assertion on financing in relationships

Perfect Match Extra contestant Hermes has ignited a social media debate with her controversial statement on financing in relationships.

The young lady, in the video, boldly asserted that she's entitled to her partner's money, emphasising that her money was hers, while her partner's money belonged to the two of them.

Speaking from her past life, she indicated that she was previously shy about taking money from her lover; however, she's built the confidence now to demand money from her partner since she's entitled to it.

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The other panellists on the show, however, disagreed with her assertion in the video, which has since gone viral.

Watch the video below:

Relationship coach disagrees with Hermes

Speaking exclusively to YEN.com.gh, a relationship coach, Seyram Avortri, disagreed with Hermes' assertion.

"When it comes to marriage, the man does not have money, and the woman does not. Then I ask, so where is the money of the Children? The money the man has is for the marriage; the money the woman has is for the marriage.

"Marriage is not just about the man and the woman, it's about it's a family that has been created. So the money is for the family, the children, the man and the woman, the money is for all of you. That is why your Children have the right to place demands on daddy or mommy to provide for them and you can't say no. If you refuse to do that, the law will take you on because you have that responsibility to provide for them. So the money belongs to the family," he said.

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Netizens react to Hermes’ assertion

Netizens who saw Hermes' video were disappointed in her statement and called out the beautiful Ghanaian lady in the comments section.

@benmintahx wrote:

"Shouting inside a microphone? Everything that comes out of that head shouldn’t be taken seriously. Let’s help her… might be that she has mental complications."

@leslie_kkkay wrote:

"Run away from these women."

@enocksmith84 wrote:

"Chewwww."

@ok_krypton2 wrote:

"Right now do you know the best thing to do? You see when they start saying trash like this, and you comment or say anything. Even if you can take care of their parents and grandparents, you’re be tagged as a broke guy. So now you just have to watch, laugh and pass."

@squabsen wrote:

"They cry for equality but shy away from responsibility and accountability. It is true, formal education does not efface foolishness. Such an improvident person is not cut for relationship."

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Lady decides to take rent from her partner

In a related development, a Ghanaian lady boldly stated that she would take rent from her partner if they lived in the same house.

In an online video, she asserted that the man was responsible for providing shelter for his family while she attended to other responsibilities. Therefore, she would charge her partner rent if they lived in the same house.

Proofread by Berlinda Entsie, journalist and copy editor at YEN.com.gh

Source: YEN.com.gh