Ghanaian Man Recounts How His Girlfriend Jilted Him After Sponsoring Her Education
- A young man identified as OrlandoGH has narrated how his ex-girlfriend broke his heart after investing in her education
- In an emotional heartbreaking video, OrlandoGH said the lady told him he was not her type soon after completing school
- However, he said karma caught up with the lady many years later, as she became mentally challenged
- Suleman Dadzie, an educationist and counsellor said in an interview with YEN.com.gh it was wrong for a man or woman to assume responsibility for their partner during courtship.
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A young Ghanaian man has recounted a sad tale of how his former girlfriend jilted him after sponsoring her education.
Identified on his socials as OrlandoGH, the young said because of how much he loved the lady, he took it upon himself to invest in her life, empowering her to have a place in society.
OrlandoGH said he ensured that the lady never lacked anything throughout the relationship with the hope of marrying her after school.
These hopes were however painfully dunked after his ex-girlfriend told him without mincing words that she was only using him as a help, he said.
He said the lady's words left him devastated for several weeks and months, where he batted with depression owing to the broken heart.
OrlandoGH stated that what pained him the most was the lady telling him that she deserved a better man than him.
"I provide everything that she needed and requested. At that time I had money, so I was just sendig it on her. But after sponsoring her education, this lady told me that she was just using me snd that she was done with me. I did no wrong, I never disrespected her. I pampered her and did provided whatever she asked for becuased I loved her," he narrated.
The young Ghanaian further stated that after jilting him for another man, he later heard that the lady had gone mad.
Without any sympathy, OrlandoGH said he was happy when he heard that his former girlfriend had become mentally challenged.
Speaking to YEN.com.gh, Suleman Dadzie, an educationist and counsellor said it was wrong for a man or woman to assume responsibility for their partner during courtship.
"Dating seeks to help both parties ascertain each other’s strengths and weaknesses and checks the compatibility level. This presupposes that not every relationship should end in marriage. Young men and women have now taken over the responsibilities of husband and wife in dating relationships which often time results in disappointment during break up," he said"said
It is not the duty of a lady in a relationship to be washing and cooking for the man whereas the man is not financially obliged to take up all responsibilities of the woman. If you mutually agree to do all that as a way of making the bond strong, in the event of a breakup, both parties should accept that in good faith and surge ahead," he stated.
Reactions to OrlandoGH's sad story
YEN.com.gh gathered some reactions to OrlandoGH's broken heart story, as sighted in the TikTok video.
Kofi_y3nsei_da said:
"Hmmm it’s exactly a month this same thing happened to me like she should wait fr me to wrong her mpo I did her no wrong bro I haven’t been myself since."
@Morgen de cr7 also said:
"Hmm bro is not you only o the same thing happened to me."
@packman commented:
"bro I had a fight with mine yesterday..now a days paaa de3 hmmm..she has put his new guy on her phone screen.not knowing she was using me for something."
Man weeps after girlfriend left him
In a related heartbreaking story, YEN.com.gh reported that a Ghanaian man was also jilted by his girlfriend after sponsoring her education at the university.
In a video, the man wept inconsolably over the heartbreak, saying to whoever would listen that his girlfriend had left him to marry another man.
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Source: YEN.com.gh