Ghanaian Lady In A Dilemma: “My Friend’s Ex-Boyfriend Wants To Date Me”

• Aggie is conflicted after her close friend's ex-boyfriend, begun asking her to be his girlfriend which she is completely against
• Despite blocking his number, the man continues to find ways to contact her, which she says is throwing her off
• Several social media users who read the story shared their opinions on what the lady should do if she is not interested in the advances

A Ghanaian lady said she was confused and did not know what to do after her friend’s former boyfriend asked her to be his girlfriend.

In a social post, Aggie narrated how the entire episode unfolded. She explained that the whole thing started in university where she met her friend Fausty in her final year at the university, when they became extremely close friends to the point they became inseparable.

Based on her narration, they have remained close ever since but there is a problem.

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In a post she sent to Silent Beads, the lady said they talk about everything, including their relationships and advise each other on issues.

At one point back in campus, Fausty was dating two men simultaneously but loved one more than the other. However, according to Aggie, it looked like the man receiving less attention cherished Fausty more.

As fate would have it, Fausty broke up with the one she loved more. Although she could see that her friend was heartbroken, Aggie encouraged her friend to give the one she loved less a chance.

However, things did not go as planned. Fausty and Kojo could not go a week without arguing. Ironically, Kojo was the one she loved less when she was dating two men.

After a big fight between the two, Kojo asked for Aggie’s number to explain things to her, which Fausty gave him. Despite calming them down, the two continued to quarrel over petty issues, leading to a breakup.

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Later on, Kojo called Aggie to ask her out but she was too loyal to Fausty and wanted to hear none of it.

According to her narration, she even blocked his number, but he still found a way to reach her. Kojo has reportedly sustained his persistence until now, which Aggie says is getting her worried.

Netizens advise Aggie on her dilemma

YEN.com.gh collated some reactions to Aggie’s story, which was shared by Silent Beads. Read them below:

Elizabeth Samson said:

“Tell your friend. Don't allow him into your life. Ignore him completely. You're a good girl with good mindset. Your own good suitor will come by God's grace.”

An Ge Lina wrote:

“Run 🏃‍♀️, and tell your friend about his advances before she finds out elsewhere.”

Blessing Onafete said:

“Keep ignoring him as usual. Don't let him bother you. He'll stop once he realizes you're serious about not dating him. Also, I think you should talk to Fausty about this. All the best.”

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Diana Tackie wrote:

“He thinks you’ll give him a chance because you’ve not told your friend yet.”

Akua Anima Karim Addo said:

“Unless you are interested in him, he cannot force you into a relationship, or you don’t have area boys to warn him?”

Oteng Akyena Emmanuel wrote:

“Nigga wants to use u to take revenge on his ex..Just get a guy who will act as ur boyfriend to call him and give him a strong warning. If it doesn’t work out, just send him a picture of two eggs and a schnapp.”

Ross Pewirincle said:

“Think twice, he might date you just to take revenge on your friend. I think there is something he is hiding from you, just be careful, guys like that can't be 100% trusted.”

Lady marries another man month after breakup

In another episode, YEN.com.gh reported that a Ghanaian lady left her ex heartbroken after she married another man just one month after they broke up.

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Henry said the lady ended the relationship because he could not cater to her financially the way she expected.

The heartbreak motivated him to find a better job and make money. He said he now has another woman in his life.

Proofread by Samuel Gitonga, Copy Editor at YEN.com.gh

Source: YEN.com.gh