Woman Shares Struggles of Turning 40 and Still Being Unmarried, “Life Didn’t Go As Planned”

Woman Shares Struggles of Turning 40 and Still Being Unmarried, “Life Didn’t Go As Planned”

A Ghanaian woman has shared her personal story of still being unmarried at the age of 40, reflecting on the dreams and plans she had in her youth.

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Woman Shares Struggles of Turning 40 and Still Being Unmarried, “Life Didn’t Go As Planned”
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Speaking candidly, she explained that she had hoped to be married around the age of 20 or 21, but life, as she puts it, “happens in unexpected ways.”

She explained that she had also planned to start a family in her early 20s, but circumstances prevented her from fulfilling those plans.

“When I was little, I told myself that I would marry young and begin my life with children, but here I am, approaching 40,” she shared, expressing her frustration and disappointment.

Reflecting on her past, the woman admitted that some mistakes she made as a teenager continue to affect her present.

“I will correct some mistakes I made, if I could turn back time, because I believe some of the decisions I made in my youth are impacting me now,” she said, acknowledging the long-term effects of her earlier choices.

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Despite the challenges, she remains hopeful and introspective, encouraging others to learn from their experiences while striving for personal growth.

Her story highlights the pressures and societal expectations around marriage in Ghana, while also emphasising the importance of self-reflection and resilience.

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Source: YEN.com.gh

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Ruth Sekyi (Entertainment Editor) Ruth Esi Amfua Sekyi is a Human Interest Editor at YEN.com.gh with 4+ years' experience across radio, print, TV, and digital media. She holds a B.A. in Communications (PR) from UNIMAC-IJ. Her media career began at Radio GIJ (campus radio), followed by Prime News Ghana. At InstinctWave, she worked on business content, playing major role in events organized by the company. She also worked with ABC News GH, updating their site, served as Production Assistant. In 2025, Ruth completed the ECOWAS, GIZ, and MFWA Information Integrity training. Email: ruth.sekyi@yen.com.gh