Ghanaian Man Shares Two Qualities Ladies Should Look Out For When Choosing A Partner

• A video of a Ghanaian man advising ladies on two qualities to look out for has surfaced on social media
• The man in the viral video indicated that these two qualities are a man who listens to his partner and one who is willing to serve his family
• In an exclusive interview with a relationship coach, he agreed with the man's assertion and explained why husbands should posses these qualities

A Ghanaian man has advised ladies on two qualities to look out for before going into a relationship with a man.

In a TikTok video, the man who shared his views via his handle @Truthmarks stated that every lady should look for a man willing to serve his family, share ideas, and listen to his wife.

He noted that ladies should not settle with a man who does not possess these two qualities because they will end up in slavery if they do.

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The Ghanaian man in his video stated that he is a man who parades himself as the head of the family but is unwilling to serve his family and is not worth marrying; likewise, a man who doesn't share his ideas or listen to his wife. He insisted that such men are autocratic.

A man must teach and serve

To clarify his statement, he noted that a man who is good marriage material teaches, protects, and provides for his family, not one who makes decisions on his own without involving his partner.

"Marriage is not slavery, it's unity. So someone who doesn't listen is autocratic," he stated.

Watch the video below:

Relationship coach agrees with Ghanaian man

Speaking exclusively with YEN.com.gh, a relationship coach, Seyram Avortri popularly known as Mr Love the Coach, explained why it was important for men to possess the aforementioned qualities.

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"I agree with this man 150%. You know why; he just spoke the truth. That is basically what marriage is all about. The man was created to behave naturally. So, as a man, you don't fight to be the head; you don't parade yourself to be the head. In any situation you walk into, even if you walk into public with your wife, everybody recognizes you as the head. They see you as a leader.

"So, there is no need to fight for the headship of the house. Now, when it comes to discussing issues with your family or with your wife before doing it, it is 100% true. You have become one, but you've become one. You are supposed to do things together. You are the leader of the team. A good leader must let the followers know where he's taking them. So then the followers know they have the vision, can see it, and know where they are going. So that when they go, they go well," he said.

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He clarified why men must listen to their spouses, stressing that women naturally loved to be listened to.

"For the listening aspect, women must be listened to. If you are a man and you cannot listen to a woman, then you are in for a fight. You don't want peace. Women just love to be listened to; they love to talk. And as a man, you must learn to listen to them."

Netizens hail Ghanaian man over his advice

Netizens who saw the Ghanaian man's video were impressed with his comments. Many commended him for his advice in the comments section.

@Debbie wrote:

"The moment I voice out p3 then he will tell me u dnt respect me all bcos I didn't agree on his decision hmmmmm."

@kwami Dee wrote:

"Godfather I love you soo much. There's no content of yours without a quotes of God's word."

@user9379043815747 wrote:

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"I'm growing everyday in knowledge through your teachings."

@Naaanaa wrote:

"Please we need English version of this content."

@Katsenakpor wrote:

@Katsenakpor the task i always do the much and most difficult part so at work I’m been respected but I’m their boss when I’m not around I’m been missed."

Man warns ladies against long-distance relationships

Meanwhile, YEN.com.gh earlier reported that @Truthmarks, in a video, cautioned ladies against going into long-distance relationships.

He noted that such relationships, especially with men who have relocated abroad, do not last and often leave ladies broken.

Source: YEN.com.gh